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Deborah Liverett

Deborah Liverett is a certified life coach and emotional intelligence consultant. Her focus is to educate and inspire people in their personal and professional life.  You can reach her at LiveLifeCoaching@comcast.net.


The Edge of Possibility 

I love standing at the edge of possibility.  I get to survey the land of new opportunities (you name it, love, moving, changing jobs…). I’m delighted to walk into the new scenario with grace and a modicum of faith.  Anyone on the brink of possibility realizes that after a deep breath and a shaky first step their emotions run into flux mode. Questions creep in: 

 “Who am I?”

“What do I bring to the table?”

“How will I suffer?”

“Who will I loose?” 

This is the time to reach for that faith the size of a mustard seed and to ask for help to spin the questions around.  Now they are: 

“Who am I aiming to be?”

“What steps will get me there?”

“What are my natural strengths?’

“Why do I have to choose to suffer?”

“Who will stay on this journey with me?”

 

Allow yourself time to adjust to your new possibilities. Become friends with courage and do more than the generation before you. Be that bigger version of yourself. It’s your life and therefore your choice. Deborah

 

 

Strength of Spirit

Haitian people have shown us two standout ideals in the last month: 

1)           Hope and belief can get you through to another day. Survivors pulled from the rubble 10 – 14 days after the earthquake said they knew they were not going to die. Can you imagine holding that kind of belief in the midst of extreme adversity?

2)           Destruction shepherds in rebirth.  Millions of dollars are pouring into Haitian relief. Unstable housing will be rebuilt on stronger foundations, hospitals will be constructed with improved equipment and families will band together to heal and grow closer out of this tragedy.  

Strength of spirit is stronger than brute force.  All types of black slave personalities were brought over tough seas.   Some blacks on the ship jumped over-board rather than exist in captivity. Some acquiesced to be able to get through the daily ordeals.   Many survivors tapped into their indomitable internal force that helped them to realize that singing was a form of communication their masters did not pick up on. And, they created quilts stitching into them symbols and diagrams to show fellow citizens the path to freedom. We are descendents of a strength that illustrates to us that anything is possible! 

It’s your choice to either lean into an internal power that our survivor focused ancestors clutched onto, or to follow external opinion of hard times and a bad economy. It is your choice because it is your life.

Deborah 

Dreams Come True

For years I have wanted a particular luxury car. My family and friends referred to it as my “dream car”. I wouldn’t allow myself to think that I could afford this car and would tell my sons when you grow up get Mommy this car. (I envisioned more prosperity in their lives than in my own).  Fast forward nearly twenty year later to a car accident that totaled my dependable paid for eleven-year-old car and left me with not one scratch, bump nor bruise.

I walked away wondering why and what now. I did not have another practical car in mind. In actuality, I had no plans to buy a new car for another four years. My family suggested I get my “dream car.”

“No, I couldn’t do that, it’s a dream of mine not my reality. What would I do without my dream? ”

What my sons each said presented me with profound thoughts: 

  • “Do you need a life coach to remind you, you’re worthy and should have nice things?”
  • “Get the car and get a new dream.”

You guessed it; I choose to buy the “dream car” and am enjoying it on streets like Lake Shore Drive while I open myself up to a new dream.  What I tell you each month applies to me as well. It’s my life and therefore my choice; just as it’s your life and your choice.  Deborah

 

 

Air of Confidence

Last week I attended a work reception.  I knew several people but not everyone. As I extended my hand to introduce myself to two artist and their companions, one woman whispered to me, I knew when you walked in the room you were in charge. The truth was I had a few responsibilities, but was not in charge. This week someone asked me what I thought it takes to do a certain job. The first thing I said was the confidence to handle yourself in all circumstances and with all types of people.

We continued to talk and agreed that confidence is energy and there are varying levels.  What air of confidence leads you into a room? 

1)       Belief in other’s credentials – your confidence is at home in the closet if you believe others credentials discredit you in any way. 

2)       Belief in your ability to do a specific thing – your confidence energy shines when you are doing the most comfortable thing; the shine dulls when you are out of your element. 

3)       Belief in your self - your confidence flows around you because you trust yourself to handle any situation in the present moment. Your confidence doesn’t take anything away from others and assumes they are wonderful in their own right. 

Confidence is in you and it’s your choice to air it wherever you go; because it’s your life and therefore your choice, Deborah

 

 

To Participate or Not

There is a grass roots movement…People who are deciding that they are not participating in the recession. As I talk to these people I am hard at work trying to understand what they have in common: 

1)     Step up on Faith – Claudia was offered a job for considerably less than her skills were worth. She feared turning it down. Armed with faith she declared where there is God there is no fear. She declined the job and one hour later she received a call offering her a job with a salary that exceeded her previous income.

2)     Take a risk and embrace change – A young man with a family was laid off. He embraced change by expanding his job search beyond the types of companies where he once worked. A proud man he took risks and asked for the help he needed to get where he wanted to go. He received rejection letters, but he also received two offers for employment.

3)     Belief in an ability to create – A woman, who was also laid off looked at the challenges she had while working. Getting her children to and from school and to after school programs was always an issue. She started a kiddies transportation service for working parents. She created a new business course for her self by satisfying the needs of others.  

If you want to remind yourself that you can choose not to participate in the recession, there are t-shirts on sale at www.soulsupportonline.com. As always, it’s your life and choice what you believe. Deborah, the Live Life Coach

 

Seeing Something New

My physical exercise of choice is walking. I was contemplating changing my route to increase the number of miles I would be logging.  Before I could take on a new direction, I noticed a park just two blocks from my house, which I had not seen before.  So now I’m thinking how could I miss seeing something new in familiar places.  Where were my thoughts when I was walking?  They clearly were not on my surroundings.  It wasn’t long before I saw a velvet green moss growing on an old tree that I pass daily.  The next day I noticed a blade of grass growing through cracked concrete. I remembered the concrete being laid three years ago better than I remembered when the crack appeared or the grass grew. When I focused on the sun softly beam across my face at 7:30 in the morning I realized how exquisite it was to enjoy this new awareness and it did not cost me any money. Suddenly, I was smiling for cheap.

I challenge you (and will include myself) to find new beauty in old things:

1.)         A job you are fortunate to have but may not like,

2.)         A long term relationship you’ve been hanging on to, or

3.)         Your neighborhood that you know like the back of your hand, but seriously when was the last time you really looked at the back of your hand?

Things around us change but we don’t often pay attention. The challenge is meant to teach us that subtle changes can go unnoticed but when we pay attention we can see beauty and truth where we least expect it. As always it’s your life and therefore your choice. Deborah

 

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Last month I attended a networking meeting. One of the people I was fortunate to talk with was beginning the corporate climb. She was delightfully funny and obviously smart. People at her job were noticing her strong client relationship skills and offering her “stretch assignments.” I found myself excited for her but noticed a bit of hesitation; so I asked her “What is most troubling about this for you?” Her answer was honest and absolutely true in her mind, “I feel like an imposter. I attend meetings and I don’t know what they are talking about.”  

I thought about her comments for days. I looked up imposter syndrome; it’s a person who believes they do not deserve the success they have achieved and that they are a fraud. It can happen to people when they step into new roles and begin to think: 

·       I am not as smart as they think.

·       What will I do if people find out I’m not as smart or capable.

·       I doubt my abilities to do this task. 

I reached out to my new acquaintance a week later and asked her to consider changing the way she described herself. She was open enough to let go of the imposter label and take on new words to describe her work situation. She came up with “I am a continuous learner.” 

How many of us label ourselves and let that label hold us back? Do your labels propel you forward or keep you stuck? I have admitted for years I labeled myself a perfectionist. I thought it was the way to make friends and be loved. I was wrong and for the last several years changed to a more accurate description, I am a non-practicing perfectionist. What label(s) do you put on yourself? The first step is being aware. The second point, dear reader, is do you choose to identify with the old label or open up a new dialogue with yourself that gives you room to grow and achieve? As always it’s your life and therefore your choice.

Deborah

 

 

5 Minutes a Day 

Do you have five minutes a day to put effort into your dreams? 

I wanted to write a book, but it was too daunting in my mind – so I procrastinated for many years.  Until a published writing teacher suggested, no challenged me to write for five minutes every day. If the day started and I had no words – I’d write that. Often admitting the truth was the key that opened my imagination. I did not realize until a month later that all those five minutes were exercise. I found I could write full pages in five minutes. There were days I was too engrossed to stop at five minutes.  

Months later when I finished the story, I set aside five minutes a day to edit.  Closer to my end goal I was willing to set aside hours to do the necessary work. Where did the hours come from in my busy life? Basically, I examined how I lived my life and made choices to make room for my desire. I choose to: 

  • Let go of television for an hour a day;
  • Write when I woke up on Saturday and Sunday mornings before the rest of my world started moving; and
  • Not talk on the phone some nights of the week.

I heard another author say she turns on her computer in the morning and as her children are eating breakfast she hopes to type a couple of sentences. She sneaks in her five minutes a day when and wherever she can. She has two published books. 

What would you like to accomplish? Are you willing to give five minutes a day toward your desire? It’s your life and your choice.

 

Do You Carry Your Past?

How long have you been carrying your emotional wounds from the past? This is not about the little scars – when you were told ‘you weren’t creative’ and every time someone asks you to be creative that tape of your third grade teacher plays to remind you it’s not a skill you ever honed. I’m talking about the repeated stabs that follow you. 

When I was a young girl Sundays were melancholy after my parents separated. Cleaning house and running errands consumed Saturdays. But Sundays were down times that left you with your thoughts and black and white depression & war time Shirley Temple movies. The movies gave us a reason to cry without discussing why your heart ached.   After my own divorce on Sundays without my children the blues returned. That old familiar feeling snuck in like a ghost walking through me and depositing its sadness. 

A fifty-year-old client confessed that Christmas holidays were always sad when she was growing up. Her father died when she was very young, which forced her Mama to marry a second time not for love but for survival. He turned out to be abusive in exchange for the shelter and food he provided.  

What struck me was that those Christmases ended over thirty years ago and still she is hurting. I explained to her my Sunday sadness ended when I: 

1)                 Became aware of the pattern;

2)                 Accepted my personal past;

3)                 Found gratitude for what the past has taught me (both the positive and not

       so positive) about my self; and

      4)  Created satisfying Sundays of my design: meditate, write & watch comedies.

What wounds are you ready to lie down? It’s your life and therefore your choice. Deborah

 

Getting Ready...(January 2009)

Getting ready for more significant days requires us to choose different ways of looking at and living our life.  If choice is a mental process where we judge between various options and select one of them; then freedom to live the life of our choosing is within each of us.  Last month I asked you to meditate on quotes about ‘choice’ to broaden your awareness. This month we will ask ourselves insightful questions and set intentions to help guide us toward any possibility of our choosing.  

1)    What do you wish would come true in your life? 

2)    Why do you want this? 

3)    Where did this wish come from? 

4)    How would your life change if you got your wish? Does that answer frighten you? Is it a realistic fear? 

5)    Are you willing to give up everything in your current life to have this new wish come true? Do you have to give it up? What are the compromises? 

6)    If you choose to stay where you are, can you find peace with that decision?  

Thoughtful answers come when we dig deeper than the surface. When you define your root cause you can stand on it firmly and achieve something more meaningful for yourself and others around you. A happier New Year is possible because it’s your life and therefore your choice. -- Deborah

 

Getting Ready (December 2008)

Getting ready for better days in the New Year requires us to choose different ways of looking at and living life.  If choice is a mental process where we judge between various options and select one of them; then freedom to live the life of our choosing is within each of us.  Let’s meditate on quotes about ‘choice’ to broaden our awareness. Next month we will ask ourselves questions and set intentions to help guide us toward any possibility of our choosing. 

Live Life

 “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” Martin Luther King, Jr. 

“The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice.” Mary Ann Evans Cross 

“We can try to avoid making choices by doing nothing, but even that is a decision.” Gary Collins 

“Life is a sum of all your choices.” Albert Camus 

“Own your choice.”  Deborah Liverett 

“To live is to choose. But to choose well, you must know who you are and what you stand for, where you want to go and why you want to get there.” Kofi Annan 

Career

“Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life.” Confucius 

“The power of choosing good and evil is within the reach of all.” Origen 

“The last of the human freedoms is to choose one’s attitude.” Victor Frank 

“Its choice – not chance – that determines your destiny.” Jean Nidetch  

“It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” JK Rowling 

Relationships

“It is by chance that we met, by choice that we became friends.”  Author unknown 

“Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.” Barbra de Angelis 

“Forgiveness is choosing to Love. It is the first skill of self-giving. Gandhi

It’s your life and therefore your choice, Deborah


Searching for Purpose and Passion  

Purpose is the divine reason you were born. It gives meaning to your being on earth. Your purpose deals with your spiritual alignment more than your physical needs. Divine purpose is your service to others. It involves giving without concern for recognition. It is just what you are meant to do - - work that matters the most to you and that helps another human being.  Purpose dwarfs the age old question, “Is this all there is?” Answer the following as you search for your purpose:

  • Why was I born?
  • What am I supposed to do with my life?
  • What do people thank you for that shocks you because it was so easy to accomplish?
  • What comes so naturally to you that you can’t understand why it isn’t simple for others?

Passion is personal. It’s a strong emotion that thoroughly engages you. Passion is observable energy for an activity that takes you away from your all important to do list. I have a passion for baking. In the midst of one hundred things to do, I will sit down and watch a cooking show. To someone else, it may appear as an irrational behavior – except in my case, it interests me so deeply, that I can retain cooking terms and new techniques without even writing them down. In most other activities, I can’t remember what I did two hours ago. I do not use this passion as my life’s work, although my pies have been known to bring happiness to family, friends and co-workers. How do you identify your passion? Ask yourself: 

  • What would you do for free, just because you love it?
  • What activity do you do that causes you to lose track of time?
  • What do you find energy to do even when you think you are tired?
  • What makes you smile at the thought of having time to do it?
  • If you had all the money in the world what would you do?
  • If you had no responsibilities what activity would give you joy?
  • What were your favorite activities from childhood through your early twenties?

If your passion is still unknown you have other options:

1) Ask yourself the above questions daily and write down your first thoughts. Do not judge the words just commit to recording them. At the end of a couple of weeks check the list for common themes.

2) Create a list of new activities and begin doing them one by one. Rate your level of joy and enthusiasm for each.

It’s your life and your choice. Deborah

 

Aspects of Healing 

Remember back in the day when you fell down and scrapped your knees, played a sport and broke a bone or ran with scissors and cut yourself? We were taught to focus on physical healing and if we were lucky there was a kiss from a loving adult or a doctor’s caring bedside manner. As grown ups our accidents and illnesses can be more difficult. Our belief is we do what the authorities say and if we are lucky nature takes it course - restoring harmony and healing cells.

Many of us also experience healing as a spiritual activity generally thought of as prayer. The battle cry is ‘Lord, please help me’. Some people will bargain, ‘I’ll do anything if you just heal me.’ When the healing takes place most people are happy to say the incident is over and it’s time to move on.  

An often forgotten component of healing is emotional recovery. Most people do not want to look at the emotions behind what happened. We want to avoid the internal pain of self- reflection because isn’t it bad enough we have to deal with the physical pain? What I have learned is that the feelings you aren’t willing to face will resurface bigger and bolder, until life has your attention. Paraphrasing a quote from Socrates --A life unexamined is generally not lived well. The assessment leads to a deeper healing and if you add forgiveness you can have resurgence.

Ask yourself these questions when examining your emotions:

  • What, if anything, did I do to cause this? (Personal responsibility)
  • Have I done this before? Why am I repeating patterns that do not serve me well?
  • How do I ensure I don’t do this again?
  • Is there a need to forgive myself? If so what steps do I take?
  • How do I forgive the others involved?
  • What lessons can I learn and what changes can I incorporate into my life?

As always, it’s your life and your choice to: 

  1. Listen to your health care providers.
  2. Give thanks for healing to your Higher Power.
  3. Examine your emotions and actions. Take responsibility for your part and forgive.
  4. Live happier, more focused and satisfied.

Deborah

 

 

Turn YOUR Light On 

I believe we are born with a brilliant internal light that resides in our very best self. Have you ever noticed the most aloof people will soften when a baby is in the room? Babies are easily themselves. They ask for what they want and expect to receive it. As babies grow their light may diminish from criticism, neglect or denial of their internal good.  

Your light is the person you were sent here to be before fear and worry became your first reaction. The light is your essence when you are not pretending to be what others want or think you should be. As adults we can turn the light up when we learn to stand for ourselves and authentically live our purpose. Turning on the internal light is as easy as flicking the switch on the wall. It merely requires: 

Awareness – what do you really want and why? Is it for good? How accepting are you of yourself? Who do you have in your life and are they supportive of you? Everything you need or want to know lies within you. 

Compassion - have you taken an honest look at your life and defined your responsibility to secure your needs? Compassion for yourself and others creates an undeniable light and energy. 

Courage – what pay off do you receive for being less than widely successful? What do you believe you deserve? You have all the power you need to succeed. 

Peace – are you seeker of peace? Do you sense everything is as it needs to be? I read recently peace is not the absence of noise, trouble or hard work; rather peace means you can be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

You can turn on your light; it’s your life and your choice. Deborah

 

Stuff Happens 

“Listen,” I told a young client who is often unhappy with the state of affairs in her life, “Stuff happens in life.” We get beat up emotionally, abused verbally, suffer through jobs that don’t suit us and argue with people we love. The secret is to choose our response to the stuff that comes our way rather than allow an automatic reaction to take place. As human beings, choosing involves selecting from a range of options. An automatic reaction occurs when there are unresolved conditions from our past. Choosing is essential to freedom and is accomplished with awareness. 

Which serves you better, peace or resentment? Haven’t you heard people say they have a right to be resentful of the people who did bad things to them? But have you noticed how unhappy they seem to be? Peace is health, wholeness and awareness: 

  • You do not have to take on someone else’s issue as your own. (A boss verbally attacks your idea with unwarranted aggressiveness.)
  • We all make mistakes; forgiveness is in order for peaceful living. (Someone you love and who loves you acts out of step with love and more in fear.)
  • All situations appear different without anger or resentments. (Anger towards a neighbor whose party was too loud inflames all subsequent interactions. However without anger the next encounter is a civil and often pleasant exchange).

The stuff of life demands we become aware of our response to ensure we grow stronger and more peaceful.  When stuff happens, it’s your choice because it’s your life. Deborah

 

Is Money a Motivating Force? 

Lack of money can be a motivating force to get some. Lots of money can be a motivating force to keep it coming. Lack of or excess of money are the by products of our deepest and earliest beliefs. My earliest belief was there is never enough money to take care of all my needs. Today I experience money as limitless. How much I have is in direct proportion to how much I believe I can have.  

Begin to understand your relationship with money by examining your thoughts: 

  • What are your first memories about money? Did you hear your parents argue about money? Did you see someone fretting about paying bills versus feeding the family? Did you see people appreciate the experiences money could provide?
  • What stories do you tell yourself and others about money? What favorite phrase do you use when people are talking about money – do you say “I can’t keep money in my pocket”; or “When I get money it ain’t never enough”; or “Money comes easily to everyone else”? If you aren’t sure what you say, ask others around you. They will be able to quote you word for word.
  • How do you feel about money? Is it a necessary evil in your life? Do you have a love/hate relationship with it? Is money a form of freedom in your life? Are your feelings related in any way to your early memories?
  • How do you want to feel about money? Rewrite your script to reflect only what you want. Rephrase sentences that have any negative words such as - no, don’t, or can’t.

Understanding where your beliefs about money stem from gives you the freedom to shift your thinking to ways that support your current desires. You examine the past to help you lay down the beliefs that do not serve you well. That opens up space for you to pick up new ideas for a financial journey of your choosing. Money is a like any other relationship; it comes when it is invited and stays when it is appreciated.

It’s your Life and your Choice, Deborah

 

What We Need 

It’s February and folks around me are buzzing about romance. So here I am sharing insights with Black Men in America and the strong sisters who need you.  

  • We need you to listen to us with no fear of retaliation.
  • We need you to hold on to us providing a safe haven in your arms.
  • We need to laugh with you over the silliness that shows up in the world that we each encounter.
  • We need you to be fathers to your children.
  • We need to hear you refer to us with kind words.

Women have bad days when we aren’t nice to our brothers. Can you see beyond our nonsense to the heart that is begging for unconditional love? Look into our eyes – see the pain that requires healing. I’m not suggesting you can heal us – that’s the work we have to do. I am suggesting you be the “medicine man of the twenty-first century” giving us a new perspective to ponder – your deepest thoughts and feelings.

And who will help you with your numerous bad days? Why the strong powerful sister you cared for yesterday because love is reciprocal.  

Dear readers as you decide whether or not to share yourself remember it’s your life and your choice.

Happy Valentine’s Day,

Deborah

Saluting the Divine in You

I’m old enough to be tired of establishing New Year resolutions; yet still young enough to have a desire to show up as a better person in this world. I am grateful to my clients for many reasons, the primary being they are mirrors in my life. When I explained to a client recently we are each responsible for our own actions it reminded me to find my own way to becoming a better human being. A quick prayer for guidance and the answer arrived.  

There is an ancient Buddhist practice to greet every person you see with a thought “I see the divine in you.” I was ready for the challenge and share with you my diary entries for the first three days of seeing the divine in people all around Chicago, Illinois. 

Day One:

I don’t know what to expect. It was harder than I thought to remember to tell everyone. Other meaningless thoughts would creep up. How do I handle crowds of people? I don’t feel any different. Why did I think this was a good idea? 

Day Two:

I tried it again. This isn’t a chore; it’s a decision to connect with people on a deeper level. It’s my way of smiling soul to soul. You can’t judge people when you are sending them a truly loving thought. I saw a young woman with purple hair this morning. My normal reaction would be to make a face and judge why in the world would anyone want such a harsh hair color. Saluting the divine in her caused me to remember a time when my hair dresser made a mistake with my own hair color. I was still the same person internally, no matter what I looked like on the outside. Isn’t the character of a person more important than what we see on the outside? 

Day Three:

People in this very large city are looking up and smiling at me. I’m sure they don’t know why. But I do - emitting love into the air counteracts fear and loneliness - it is an undeniable energy. I started the workday with a calmer disposition. Minor annoyances fell away easily instead of gelling into a giant headache. I feel joy! 

Dear Reader, I see the divine in you. What’s your desire for 2008 and how will you get there?  E-mail me at LiveLifeCoaching@comcast.net to discuss where you plan to go.  

It’s Your Life and Your Choice, Deborah

 Joy

What’s one gift you can give yourself all year long that doesn’t cost a thing? The gift of Joy!

Joy is a spiritual union between life’s unsettling moments and knowing you are divinely protected. Joy understands what is happening around you is real, but it does not define you. Joy isn’t an emotion, it’s a quality that resides in each of us; that ride us through the negative stuff in life. Joy is an energy that allows us to see beyond the problems. It’s a faith in something greater than us. Joy reminds us that we have moved beyond hard times before and survived, often in a better way than we could have imagined.

In my early thirties I moved to a big city where I had a handful of work acquaintances and fewer real friends. After I paid bills I would have no money left for fun activities; which gave me time alone to get to know myself and to define my faith. In those wintry days and nights I found joy began to keep me company. That path to joy happened when I realized our perils are always temporary. No storm lasts forever. In fact, the storm blows over and many of us keep it alive in our thoughts. The decision to keep talking about what happened weighs us down. We are human; therefore we feel sadness, hurt and pain. It is our choice to either stay in those feelings or to find our joy.  

1) What makes you smile that has nothing to do with anyone else? Defining your faith and your purpose is a good place to start.

2) Know what you like about yourself and acknowledge what you don’t like. Accept your body shape or your hair loss, to rid the sting it currently gives you. Take that freedom to make new decisions - to cut your hair or to eat fewer potato chips or ice cream – sorry those are probably my vices not yours.

3) Give to another person with no expectation of anything in return. Buy food store gift cards and hand them out to the homeless or volunteer to help a child understand the value of learning. What I have learned is giving with no regard for anything in return is the best form of selfishness because the joy you experience stems from your core.

I wish each and every one of you a joy-filled holiday and New Year. It’s Your Life and Your Choice. Deborah

 

 

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