Gang violence is contributing to a disturbing
crime trend across the country -- in 2006
murders were up 6.7 percent in cities with a
million or more residents. According to FBI data
there were more than 670,000 assaults with
firearms between 2001 and 2005.
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THE GANG LINE: O PARENT--WHERE ART THOU? (PART
TWO) BY MIKE RAMEY
Tip
From The Old School: If your child comes home with
bruises, burn marks, new tattoos, or other marks on
their body, call CPS! Gang initiations practiced on
those under the age of sixteen may be regarded as child
abuse--and should be investigated.
(LAST
IN THE SERIES)
I’ve spent
a bit more than a year writing about the ins and outs of
Modern Street Gang issues (MSG) on the Internet in
column form. Several major articles, a major interview
and about a year’s worth of individual columns on the
issue--with this being the last--puts the information
into the hands of parents and others who have been
searching for answers.
Therefore,
it is fitting that this last column goes out to parents
in order to--again--supply the answers that they are
seeking.
THE
CONTINUATION:
In the
first portion of my commentary, I explained how Modern
Street Gangs (MSGs) have become an INTERNATIONAL
phenomena. I hit upon the TRUE power that parents have
over their teens and how such power could be used to
bring their children out of the gang scene. I started to
unfurl the Ramey Quick Seven tips for parents in order
for them to check on their child’s interest and
involvement in gang activity.
Make no
mistake about these facts: First, ALL gang issues are
LOCAL. IF parents are not stepping up to the plate in a
particular city there is little that the police or a
gang expert can do to break the cycle of crime, misery,
and violence. Second, the authorities are going to do
all they can to protect their budgets, and are NOT
really going to provide information or intelligence to
help the public until after a problem has started to sap
THEIR resources. Amen?
True
story. One night, I stopped by a local pizza place. On
the wall above the cash register were nearly a dozen
apartment complexes that were considered ‘off limits’ to
drivers at all times, and one complex that drivers could
ONLY deliver to during the daylight hours. In the
complexes cited, delivery drivers for different pizza
outfits had been roughed up, beaten up, had their money
stolen, and a few were murdered…most of the perpetrators
were tied to local gangs.
Think
about this parents. When the prices of good and services
start to go up because gang members--many of them local
teens--have to commit a crime to get initiated, who
REALLY pays the bill? Right! The entire portion of town
where the criminal activity is taking place. If
businesses continue to be victimized by the gangs, what
will they do? Right! Close up shop and move to another,
less crime-ridden location. This ALSO means longer trips
to the mall, grocery store and drug store.
If one
wants a selfish reason for parents to get involved in
breaking the back on gang crimes, here is the best one:
The small business that closes in your area because of
gang crime today WILL NOT be there tomorrow when YOUR
teen needs their first job.
#3--PARENTS NEED TO REGULARLY CHECK THEIR TEEN’S ROOM:
I’d like
to say that this is the final in ‘The Gang Line’
Internet series on Modern Street Gangs. The intent was
to cover the basics; to--again--put the tools in the
hands of the parents. So, let us continue on down my
‘Quick Seven’ list for parents.
Point
Three: Check your child’s room, early--and often.
You have
NO idea as to what is really in there, nor as to whom
has been asking your teen to ‘keep’ stuff for them.
During probation sweeps I’ve been on, parents have
looked truly shocked as to what probation and law
enforcement offices ‘found’ in their teen’s room.
Imagine what YOU could find on random checks of your
OWN!
#4--PARENTS NEED TO CHECK THEIR TEEN’S LOCKER AT SCHOOL:
Nothing
says ‘parental concern’ than mother or father or both
visiting their teen’s school and requesting that school
officials come along with them as their open their
child’s locker. Lockers, to teens, are regarded as an
‘extension’ of their social life. Sometimes they serve
as ‘drop zones’ for a group of friends--or the local
gang. Many teens KNOW that adults and school officials
rarely check lockers. Even with random drug sweeps,
teens generally get ‘tipped off’ through the underground
on a rough time table when the searches take place. Few
teens will see it coming when mom or dad show up at
school during office hours and ‘check out’ what has been
going into the lockers…other than books. Don’t forget to
talk to the school security personnel while you are
there, too!
#5--PARENTS NEED TO MONITOR THEIR TEEN’S COMINGS AND
GOINGS:
Once upon
a time, our parents determined a time for the kids to be
home. It was call ‘curfew’. Mom and Dad were serious
about their children being at home at a specific time.
If you weren’t at home on time--there were
repercussions.
A legal
curfew works in the same way.
In many
states, if a teen is on probation or parole and is
arrested for/cited for a curfew violation, this would be
one of those possible ‘last straw’ situations that could
have them heading back to lockup.
Parents,
when a cop catches your teen out in violation of your
local curfew ordinance and brings them home, PLEASE
thank them! The police officer COULD have just arrested
them and taken them to lockup. You see, unless the teen
is out working or attending a church service, the
likelihood of them doing the right thing after 9pm and
before 3am on a school night is fairly low. Those are
the hours of prime gang activity.
#6--PARENTS NEED TO MONITOR BRUISES/TATTOOS ON THEIR
CHILD:
Whether
you call them Child Protective Services (CPS) or
Department of Child Services (DCS), there are a host of
people who have been made legally liable IF they spot
bruises, tattoos and scratches on your teen--even IF
they are of high school age. By law, in most states,
professionals from teachers to court officers HAVE to
report to Child Welfare if bruises, scratches or welts
appear on a child. My dear parent, you are with your
teen more than they are. I have both heard of and seen
parents ‘shocked’ when their little darling is sporting
a tattoo or gang clothing or ‘flags & colors’ on their
bodies.
It is
STILL a criminal offense for an older teen to ‘beat’ on
one who is younger than they. Thus, when youngsters want
to be ‘beaten into’ the gang (and run the gauntlet of
punches and kicks) they are often left bloody and
bruised after the experience. Parent, you had best keep
an eye on your child as to these physical issues.
Someone else is already watching. Your inactivity opens
up someone else’s RESPONSIBILITY. The LAST place you
want to end up is in front of a Child Welfare worker who
is ready to snatch your kids from you because you may be
‘abusive’. In reality, your teen may be on their way
into the gang universe, and YOU will have to be the one
who either takes the fall for their stupidity, or the
blame for your inactivity.
7#--PARENTS NEED TO MONITOR THEIR TEEN’S CLOTHING
CHOICES:
There are
a variety of clothing choices for young people in the
marketplace. Since advertisers COUNT on teens being able
to tap their parent’s wallets and purses, it is up to
the parents to KNOW not only what the popular styles
are…but how they could be interpreted by society and
gang members. I realize that parents may not want to
read about this (as they are under enough pressure) but
they need to be aware of what their children are
wearing--or not wearing.
The teen
of today is like the teen of yesterday; they know what
is acceptable and what ‘may’ be dangerous in terms of
clothing choices. If one wears too much ‘red’ or too
much ‘blue’, or wears the wrong numeric combinations (as
certain numbers represent certain gangs) they could be
placing themselves in harm’s way at school and on the
street.
It would
take me far too long to cover the vastness of the
clothing issue. However, there are great on line
resources for parents to scan. The best ‘first’ place to
start is to listen to your teen and find out if there
are gangs active in your area. The next step is to be
observant of what teens are wearing around your
neighborhood and school and ask ones that you trust the
‘real deal’ on what the clothing means.
THE
SERIES WRAP UP:
“The Gang
Line” has laid out the basics on fighting gang activity.
The secret weapon is parental involvement!
Parents--along with some solid, biblical training and
prayer--are still the best weapon in not only breaking
up gangs, but stopping gangs from forming. As I wrap up
this venture in contributing to the Internet knowledge
and action base, I’d like to take the time to thank each
of you for your emails. I’d also like to thank those who
had the courage to run these columns, as these brave men
and women have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that
they care for their families and communities from more
than the ‘talking’ stage. I’ll be taking my leave now,
and just want to say that God be with you…until we meet
again.
Tip
From The Old School: Contact your local police
department for information regarding their ‘ride along’
program. It will give you a ‘true view’ of what IS
happening in your area! It will also give you a contact
IF there is trouble later!
In the
garden, God called out: “Adam, where art thou?”
In the
homes of America--from the projects to the suburbs--God
AND society are making a different type of call out: “O
Parent, where art thou?”
I realize
that there are those who may reaching for their phones
attempting to call some protest group because I dared to
bring ‘religion’ into the discussion of parental
responsibility in combating Modern Street Gangs (MSGs).
I’d like to say to those critics the following: Modern
Street Gangs are using their own brand of ‘religion’ to
expand their deception, and draw in more recruits, aka
‘disciples’. Faster than a cop can say ‘traffic ticket’,
law enforcement and prison experts confess that the
religion dynamic--that ‘First Amendment’ staple--is
making it harder to monitor the true activities of
Modern Street Gangs. In order to break up MSG activity
at the root takes informed parental control, and a
DECREASE of government interference.
You read
me right…a DECREASE of government interference.
Gangs are
now an INTERNATIONAL phenomena. From Alaska to Atlanta
to Australia, MSG crews are recruiting and expanding. My
aim with these columns is to informing parents--be they
single, two parent, or guardians--to encourage, uplift
them AND remind them of the need for their DIRECT
involvement. I also have a very simple piece of logic at
work: even the most hardened of gang thugs has a
parent/guardian in the mix of their lives and they will
STILL listen to them, no matter how ‘tough’ the teen may
try to carry themselves.
RAMEY’S ‘QUICK SEVEN’ FOR PARENTS:
Thus, for
the remainder of this column, I’ll be spelling out my
‘Quick Seven’ tips for parents and guardians to ‘see’ if
their son or daughter are actively involved in MSG
activity. These tips will also determine how ‘close’
their child is to the ‘action’ on the streets, and
whether or not their teen is ‘developing’ a taste for
the ‘street life’.
Let me say
upfront that rebellion is ‘normal’ for a teen. That
sweet little face you saw in the crib at three to six
months; the same son who wanted to play race cars with
you at six years old; the same daughter who wanted to
hug your knee when a stranger approached at seven years
old WILL be the same child who wants to ignore you at
fifteen.
Like
Barney Fife said, you have to “Nip” it in the bud!
I
developed these little items based upon spending some of
my career as a Probation Officer with a local juvenile
court. I was amazed that not only did my client know
other clients coming in and out of court; the
parents/guardians ALSO knew each other.
In fact,
SOME families had been active in their local courts for
YEARS.
A true way
to test the length of time some family had been involved
with a court: IF a family name were mentioned during
staff meeting by junior staff, you would most likely get
a weary: “Yeah, I had his mother, father, sister, or
brother on my case load years ago.” From a Senior P.O.
#1--PARENTS NEED TO MAINTAIN CONTACT WITH OTHER PARENTS:
I’ll get
some mail on this one, but I’ll risk it. A single
parent; a guardian, or a two parent household has an
EQUAL chance of success in keeping children in line as
LONG as they are ‘pro-active’ rather than ‘re-active’.
In short,
don’t be your child’s friend; be their PARENT! Put the
FEAR of GOD into them EARLY and remind them FREQUENTLY
that you are in CHARGE of your home, right down to the
use of corporal punishment to reinforce that point. IF
you are ‘of color’ like I am, you KNOW that talking and
time outs are PC fairy tales. The backhand, the front
hand, the ‘stare’ and the taking away of things are in
the arsenal too!
Tip #1:
Parents NEED to maintain contact with OTHER parents in
the neighborhood and at school. Yes, parents may ‘see’
each other at church, or at the mall, or at the
store…but parents need to do more than drive-by
communication with other adults. Just because trouble
doesn’t show up on the TV, or in Ebony, or in your local
headlines does NOT mean its not brewing.
I found it
simply amazing that parents/guardians and the teens who
were ‘locked up’ at juvenile all KNEW each other. Yet,
when the cops came for ‘their baby’ the fight was ON!
Parents were shocked that the judge was serious when a
warrant was issued for their child. Many of these same
parents were also the ones on camera--crying--when their
baby was gunned down in the street; an unwilling player
in a ‘three bullet opera’.
Parents--IF your child is involved in gang activity,
best take him/her to the police yourself. Always
remember: the cops have a very liberal ‘pick up’
policy--and they can and WILL visit you if your child is
in trouble.
#2--PARENTS NEED TO MONITOR THEIR TEENS’ ELECTRONIC
CHOICES:
Cell
phones, MP3 players, CD portables and video players are
NOT a RIGHT! You, PARENT--in MOST cases--will be
shelling out of YOUR pocket so your teen can look ‘cool’
and fit in. Sadly, all a teen has to do is mention the
words “Well, everybody ELSE has one…” and the modern
parent turns to jelly and caves in.
Those who
created these toys KNOW this; so do gang members.
And…to be
a ‘good’ gang member, juveniles have to have four
things:
*A Cell
Phone w/Text Messaging/Camera for instant and wide
communication.
*An MP3/CD
rig to listen to the favorite Rap/Hip Hop gang songs.
*A DVD
Player to view the favorite movies of the gang.
*A
PC/Laptop to maintain communication to gang’s web
universe.
Now,
parents--if you are giving them these things, without
providing any monitoring of what they are ‘doing’ on
them, you are asking for trouble. That present you buy
for them and place under the tree in the old year, will
possibly be their ticket to juvenile court in the new
one. The FIRST place that there usually will be
instances of gang membership and activity found by
police is tied to those four electronic items I just
mentioned.
Parents,
gang membership is supported by keeping teens ‘off
balance’ and mother and father in the dark. If your teen
is spending four to six hours or more a day ‘plugged’
into their electronic universe and is listening to or
watching the ‘thug buster’ of the week video again, and
again, and again…they are conditioning themselves to
either DO the act, or forget they have DONE the act.
They are counting on you not knowing what your teen is
listening to, because you are a parent, and not held to
be ‘hip or with it’.
Want to
throw your teen a curve? Pick one of THEIR favorite
videos and have them SING it OUT LOUD and EXPLAIN the
words. Better yet, have them sing their school fight
song or the words of a church hymn.
Oh yes, it
will get quite comical…especially AFTER they fail your
test.
IF they
pass (because a few will read this and brush up) create
another test. This will mean that it will be time for
them to go on an electronics ‘diet’ of sorts, as you
start to confiscate their toys until their ‘minds’ get
right with school and home. Yes, they will fuss! Expect
It! Some may be so bold to try to break in and steal
their stuff back! Keep it from them for a longer period
of time, or PAWN it! Hold your ground and keep their
stuff locked up in a secure location and without
batteries until you see--and hear--them thinking right
and acting right.
Tip From The Old School: School uniforms may add
to gang problems rather than prevent them. It is up to
PARENTS to show up at local school board hearings and
get the full facts on school uniform choices BEFORE
school officials make decisions.
Modern street gangs are composed mainly of teens
that underestimate their worth to themselves, to their
families, and to the society at large. This is the way
gangs want it, and this is the danger that the
government, public nor church seems to want to see. Of
course, since teens are vulnerable to wrong
decisions--as they are teens--Madison Avenue is more
than happy to extract a buck from your child’s body
and/or corpse.
If this sound brutal, you are right…but it is
still the truth.
If I may get biblical for a moment, there
are--in the Scriptures--many solid examples of young
people who made a difference in their teens. In current
society, there are countless examples of teens having a
vision or dream or product idea that was later sharpened
and directed with great results. Take away that vision,
and you have nothing more than teen lemmings--especially
among teens of color.
Businesspeople--Black, Hispanic and
white--continue to shout down the potential of many of
our youth with the voice of “…you need THIS product to
be cool.” I recently stopped by one of my local,
storefront “hip hop” clothing stores, just to keep up on
the latest fashions. Never did I realize that so much
money was being made by “The Tribe Of Dollars”. Hats
going for $25 to $50--complete with appropriate gang
colors and logos--many of them sports oriented.
Oversized “T” shirts being snapped up for $10 a throw.
Plus, what thugg (my personal spelling choice) of the
future would not be complete with the various belt
buckles, cash wads (yes, they DO sell them--LOL), plus
jeans, jackets and jerseys--right down to ‘Lil G’
sizes.
It costs a lot to slouch into the criminal
look, these days.
Here’s another one: local gas stations has
become a boutique of sorts for gang wear. Some of them
sell the oversized T-shirts, bandanas, and other
assorted gang wear at lower prices…but cheaper quality.
Gas stations have to be diverse to make a buck from the
gang crowd in more ways that one. A few years back,
blunting became the rage. A blunt is a cigar that is
center filled with marijuana by an individual in order
to mask the smell of weed. (Unfortunately, because of
the make-up of the cigar in the first place, the weed
tends to stay in the system longer, thus ensuring
positive drug test results). Many gas stations were
reluctant to sell cigars--but more and more ‘local
customers’ demanded them. With a shrug of the shoulders,
large and small cigars became a part of the inventory at
many stations.
LOOKING FOR BACKBONE AMONG THE UPRIGHT:
One of the rules of the street gang life: One
has to maintain a certain style, or profile in order to
be in with their peers. Even IF that style could get one
killed either deliberately, or by accident by being worn
in the wrong place at the wrong time.
While the Rap/Hip Hop industry has been
experiencing plummeting sales for the last five years,
sales of jerseys, caps, and T-shirts have been climbing
upwards. The ‘dream machine’ of cable, HD, Hollywood,
and various and sundry television and movie shows have
been developing and releasing a constant stream of youth
clad in gang colors past many pairs of anxious eyeballs.
Though the public has put up some small amount of
protest, the media kabal continues to push--in 24 news
cycle fashion--those items that ‘makes’ one ‘hip and
happening’.. Even the latest video games have the
inclusion of character bad guys--mainly Blacks or
Hispanics--clad in what the entertainment industry
‘believes’ to be gang attire based upon their focus
groups and field research.
Pro sports has been putting up a ‘mild’ protest
about how some gangs have been using their merchandise
as a means of ‘flagging loyalty’ to their local gang or
crew.
I’ve yet to see the NFL or NBA sue MS-13 over how they
use team jerseys.
IT IS ALL ABOUT THE CASH:
School corporations have instituted school
uniforms--with the parents paying the tab--in order to
‘cut down’ on school gang violence (that is, IF they
admit they have such problems). Unfortunately, many of
the color schemes are already established gang color
patterns. Be sure to thank your local school corporation
if your teen is recruited into a faction of the Vice
Lords or BGDs on school property because of their
uniforms.
But I digress.
To subsidize evil is to allow it the grace to
expand. Gangs, since 2001, have been steadily expanding
from the back alleys, into the malls, sport teams, and
schools with little admission as to their
existence…until one turns on their nightly news.
The quest for coolness--even with a high price
tag--silences many objections.
Now, I realize that there are those who may
think that I am making too much out of nothing. Sagging
pants, gang handshakes, colors and Hip Hop/Rap music are
‘just teen rebellion’. What’s the harm, right?
Balderdash!
You see, the same people who make such
statements are the same ones who ignore the fact that
their own teens are wearing the same fashions and
mimicking the same behavior. They would rather duck
behind gated communities, padlocked mailboxes and
quickly lock their doors when one of OUR teens come near
their cars. All of a sudden, the ‘compassionate’ expect
the police to ‘roust’ potential gang members away from
them and their families because of their ‘looks’.
Meanwhile, it is perfectly ‘natural and okay’ for the
‘marauding marketing mobsters’ to pour their wares into
the eager brains of our youth.
They don’t have to attend funeral--only board
meetings.
PARENTS: SEND A STRONG FINANCIAL MESSAGE!
I feel it getting awfully quiet out there at
this point in my column, but I’d like to remind parents
that they can VETO the bad financial choices of their
teens by NOT contributing to the madness.
Yes, I can fondly remember my days of ‘teen
rebellion’, and it is true that what you do as a child
does ‘force you to come around’ when you grow up and
become a parent yourself. You remember and reflect upon
the ‘money motive’ of those in the advertising game when
YOU were a teen. You also tend to get a little irritated
in the way that MP3s, downloads, iPods and
photo/phone/text messaging systems bring teens
unapologetically into a 24/7 marketing blitz that never
seems to leave them (or parents) alone.
I am also aware that not every child who dresses
up in today’s fashions are gang members…but I would also
like to make you aware of the fact that at two o’clock
in the morning, when a suspect is being sought by
police, clothing DOES count!
Let us remember parents--single, married, and
extended--WE control the purse strings and have the
mandate to teach our young and teens the difference
between style and being hustled by Madison Avenue and
the mall. No matter how much a teen may ‘whine’ about
wanting the ‘coming thing’, it is up to the adults in
their lives to explain the differences between good
choices and deadly consequences. Truly, there IS a lot
more at stake than one may think, and the “The Tribe Of
Dollars” won’t cry one tear IF you don’t do your job.
Neither will they attend your child’s funeral IF they
get happen to get caught in the wrong clothing in the
middle of a gang shootout.
Tip
From The Old School: Do NOT seek to ask your Pastor or
Church to be involved with your child’s appearance
before school, court, or other authorities UNLESS you
and your child have developed MORE than a “Hi/Bye”
relationship with your house of worship.
A few years back a pastor and I were talking about
juvenile justice issues. One of the families in his
congregation were going to have to attend an expulsion
hearing, and they wanted the pastor as a ‘character
reference’ concerning the child. The pastor was more
than happy to be involved. I, on the other hand, was a
little suspicious.
I am going somewhere with this.
I spoke up. “Did the mother provide you with paperwork
on the hearing, or did she just ask you to attend?” I
was greeted with a quizzical “No,” as by his facial
expression the pastor seemed puzzled. “I’m not trying to
get into your business, preacher…but if you do NOT have
‘full disclosure’ from this family on the incidents
leading up to the expulsion, you may hurt your
reputation by being so ‘quick’ to testify.”
Now, I don’t know if he testified--or if he did not. In
truth, we are living in the ‘deceptive’ days of our
society. Folks will go out and do wrong on a grand
scale, then--as they are about to face the consequences
of their actions--they run to get their own ‘posse’ of
friends and experts in order to explain away their
actions. All the posse gets to know is that the person
whom they are supporting ‘got’ into trouble. After the
dust has cleared, the money spent, and the time and
emotions invested, it is ‘learned’ that the person
involved had more to do in starting the trouble than
previously believed.
There is a biblical admonition for those of us who wear
the Christian label to ‘count the costs’ of our actions
and involvements. The Bible warns us not to be quick to
‘co-sign’ onto the trouble of others. If folk are not
forthcoming about the extent of their troubles, you are
not obligated to provide resources.
THE
FAMILY CAME FIRST:
These next few items may shock more than a few groups
and churches, but I’ll state them anyway. First, the
Bible does give people the power to judge, along with
the power of individual choice. When Jesus sees people
deliberately not noticing legitimate ‘red flags’ (such
as the Pharisees), His solution was to rebuke them
loudly, and in public.
Second,
God created the institution of marriage first, and the
family unit second in the Book of Genesis. Those in the
courts, law enforcement, and even the church who attempt
to develop programs or to secure grants in order to form
a wedge between parent/guardian and child are making
mistakes of biblical proportions. One can not
successfully break up the spread and impact of gangs
without empowering the family. This may sound
‘simplistic’ to some. Needless to say, I am a person who
believes more in solutions and less in ‘wishful’ talk as
I have seen the problem and the damage up close and
personal.
GRANTS, TAXES AND RECESSION:
Parents/guardians BEST know the capabilities and talents
of their own children. This is why THEY are best to know
when their kids are turning towards gang activity,
because they recognize the ‘red flags’ of troubled
youth. Developing treatment and intervention programs
for juveniles WITHOUT the consideration OR involvement
of their parents/guardians is just a waste of
resources.
Nevertheless, society continues is drive to proudly
skirt parental authority.
As I have mentioned before; suppression and detention of
gang members only will only work in certain
circumstances, and over a limited span of time. Gang
members change street tactics roughly every six to
twelve months. It takes--by my estimation--some three to
five YEARS for local authorities--including churches and
schools--to respond with plans to alert the public to
gang dangers and try to contain gang activity in their
own locales…provided those in these authority positions
AND in the community are willing to admit that they have
a gang problem in the first place.
In many cities, the denial continues and the
crime rate increases.
I’ll repeat this next item again for the record: There
are many institutions and agencies that make money off
of the gang issue through various grants and funding
sources. As I was putting this column together, a
high-ranking federal law enforcement official was the
subject of an article about the ‘reality’ of what grants
could and could not do in putting more local cops on the
streets. In short, this official noted that the current
recession, coupled with local and state governments
having to hold the line on taxes and expenses would NOT
be able to count on federal grants to add more local
cops.
But wait, there IS more.
A few weeks earlier, another article came forth pointing
out that more and more cities were going to hire more
civilians to handle lesser crimes, freeing up more cops
for street duty. Lastly, because of the fuel price
crisis, another well-written article on law enforcement
issues came forth, explaining how police agencies were
investing in bicycles and other ‘gas friendly’ vehicles
to save money on gas costs.
UNDERSTANDING THE RED FLAGS:
What does this all mean? As I read these articles, MY
take was the following: local law enforcement
agencies--including the courts--are going to be
‘prioritizing’ their handling of certain crimes. Mr. And
Mrs. Taxpayer are going to have to do more about
fighting crime themselves--at the ROOT!
Thus, it is time for the ‘meat’ of this
column…recognizing the red flags of gang activity from
the home to the street. Parents, you DO have the power
to blunt much of the negative activities of YOUR OWN
children, contrary to the ‘PC’ crowd.
IF you coddle them; indulge them, and take their side
over legitimate authority, your child will wind up
either on TV or in the morgue. Teach them the value of
hard work, staying crime free, the need for church &
faith in God through Jesus Christ, the benefits of a
good education--including graduating and going on to
trade school or college--and you will have a successful
child.
Why does it rest with the home and/or the parent or
guardian?
Simple. A child is blessed with the internal ability to
love and follow their parents--both of them--into right,
or wrong behavior. Three immediate red flags involve the
activity of parents. Should one--or both--of them have
criminal records, be on probation/parole, or have been
or are spending time in jail or prison, you have the
potential of the child wanting to ‘follow’ in their
footsteps. It gets worse if the child is being raised by
a custodial parent who has done their level best to
‘slam’ the non-custodial parent--especially if that
parent is incarcerated.
Two other red flags are parent/guardian controlled.
These revolve around who your child ‘hangs out’ with,
and whether or not your child is regularly attending
school.
I’ll make
these sweet and simple. If your child sees you hanging
around shady characters; if your child sees you not
continuing your education or even ‘keeping up’ with
current events through the newspaper, magazines or
books, your child will be inching ever closer to truancy
problems, school suspensions and/or expulsion. Waiting
for them on ‘the street’ will be those older juvenile
delinquents who will be happy to use your child as a
‘toy’. Some of these older juveniles are of the opposite
sex, and have no problem in training your child to be a
liar, cheat, criminal and gang member.
The advice for summer now that school is letting out?
Get to know your child and recognize potential red flags
and address them at home. It is better for a
parent/guardian to get involved with their children now,
than sitting in a courtroom later having to explain
their inaction--to a judge. See you next month!
THE
GANG LINE: GANGS & MUSIC--A SIXTIES REPLAY
BY MIKE RAMEY
Tip From The Old School: There are dozens of places
in a community where a parent may get their child
drug tested or ‘urine dropped’. Your family doctor
is a great resource AND can recommend ‘over the
counter’ drug tests that you may use at home.
On one afternoon in my city, a local high
school was letting out. Traffic was being directed
by school police as teens were heading home. One
could hear rather quickly the steady
‘thump-thump-thump’ coming from various teen
vehicles. I actually laughed as I saw one car full
of teens shooting gang signs in time with the music
(stacking) at another car load of teens in front of
them who, in turn, were shooting the same signs back
at them.
Ah, the days of youth…and disposable
music.
In spite of the Alicia Keys/50 Cent
slamfest about modern music, the truth has started
to come out. MOST Rap/Hip Hop recorded, produced,
released, and sold in America has no lasting value,
save to ‘rile up’ the passions of teens that don’t
know any better, and filling the pockets of the
artists who wouldn’t know sheet music from a copy of
“Jet.”
More and more of the KNOWN artists are
recording ‘the standards’ as they have ‘discovered’
that their genre won‘t last past a milk carton
expiration date. Industry moguls know Rap/Hip-Hop
has been losing revenue over the last five years.
More ‘traditional’ songs are being recorded as
Stevie Wonder, The Temptations, and Diana Ross are
the ‘new cool.’ The ‘thugg’ look is quietly being
put away, out of fear that the general public will
finally wise up and crush Rap/Hip-Hop sales.
THE MAINSTREAM IS ALWAYS THE AIM:
Oh, you KNOW that this is TRUE. While
industry experts like to hush that some seventy
percent of Rap/Hip Hop music IS purchased by
whites--young white males in particular--it should
also come as no shock that many street gangs get
their ‘bravado’ from consuming Rap/Hip Hop songs and
videos, some of them made by artists with KNOWN gang
affiliations.
The objective is the mainstream my
friends; by influence, buck or power. No matter how
creative we Black folk may be, there are few
business ventures that can ‘only’ be supported by
Black patronage. Thus, Black artists push to get to
the mainstream as quickly as possible, just like
other artists. As far back as the 1930s, Black
musicians, vocalists and artists knew that for
anything to sell, it has to be brought to the
mainstream--which is--like it or
not--white-controlled.
A REPLAY--OF THE SIXTIES?
Recently, the History Channel came out with a
documentary about the Hippie culture and its impact
on society. I noticed something right away
concerning the music of that era. Music moguls of
today have taken the trends of the sixties, revamped
them and brought them forward with money in mind. If
you remember your younger days, music drives society
and word of mouth drives music sales and trends.
Money, like The O’Jays said, drives them both. Songs
are produced, sell and are well received, or they go
to the bargain bin.
Rap/Hip Hop is no different.
The more outlandish, the more flesh that
shows, the more ‘buzz’ a particular song generates,
the better the sales. Teens could care LESS that the
props are rented, the homes are borrowed and many of
the people in the videos have jobs elsewhere. If it
feels good (makes them forget reality) then its OK
with them.
The gangs know this and they are
succeeding to use music to fuel their ‘reps’.
THE MUSIC IS THE MESSAGE, THE MESSENGER--AND THE
MATCH!
Let us not kid ourselves…gangs run on
rebellion, and most Rap/Hip Hop serves as the fuel
in the tank. In order to be a successful gang
member, one must not only be able to stack out
(using hand signs to tell a story) their gang
affiliation, but to impress or to intimidate others.
Don’t tell me that gang members are ‘dumb’. It takes
hours of practice to stack with precision. They
proudly use spare time that could be used for doing
homework or learning a trade or skill to ‘impress’
their peers and increase their reputation.
Think Rap/Hip Hop is not getting the once
over from Wall Street? Forbes magazine, as of last
year, annually tracks how much rappers make with
their ventures.
Needless to say, the millions made does
not qualify as ‘chump change’. To a banger, the
music is the message, the messenger and the
inspiration. It not only ‘excites’ but ‘ignites’.
Every gang member, or former gang member that I have
come across admits that they like to get high, put
on their tunes, and play their favorites…for hours.
The music was their pride and joy, their shield and
personality.
Sounds like the same things about music
said when I grew up with during the ‘summer of love’
era. But, I digress.
Eventually, a banger reaches a saturation
point whereby they are either egged on by gang
leaders, or just get into a situation where they
decide to ‘act out’ what they have been listening
to. Hours--or days--later it ‘sinks in’ as to what
they have done while they are in a cell, or on their
way to trial or prison.
CAN WE STOP THE MUSIC?
For those who think that I make too much
of the power of music, I have additional
information. In 2007, according to a survey by
HealthDay some of the best selling songs as selected
by Billboard Magazine for the year 2005 yielded some
eye opening results. They found that 77 percent of
the top Rap/Hip Hop songs had references to
substance use in them. Whether it be booze, drugs,
or other items to ‘bend mental reality’, the proof
was in the music. By the way, some 37 percent of
Country Western songs had substance use mentioned,
and 14 percent of rock songs. These findings are NOT
new, but let me do the math. Teen anger, plus drugs,
plus alcohol, plus aggressive music, plus gang
members, plus problems at home or school or in just
growing up; mix in some promises of excitement and
thrills and this equals a new gang member OR
potential gang leader.
I’ve heard those in law enforcement say
the following time and time again: “Parents, be they
single or married are the BEST weapon in the fight
against gangs!” Add to the discussion THIS fact:
MOST gangs have in their rules, bylaws, or
constitutions the fact that they are supposed to
listen to or protect their parents.
HOUSE CLEANING IN ORDER:
Parents; YOU have the power of the purse.
YOU determine what comes into your home! Complaining
about what is on the public airwaves is pretty lame
when each household with an authority figure has
steps they can take. From monitoring and limiting
entertainment choices to examination of what their
teens are listening to or watching, parents ARE the
authority of the home. It does NOT hurt to have a
foundation involving church, the Bible, and a
relationship with Jesus Christ. Since Christ cleaned
out the temple; He can strengthen parents and
guardians to clean UP their OWN homes IF they want
to see a change in their teens. Remember: There IS
no separation of church and state in a jail cell, or
in the morgue autopsy room. Until parents get a grip
on their teens’ ears and limit their spending on bad
entertainment choices, the flow of young people into
the gang scene will continue.
The incentives are worth pursuing if
parents would start teaching! I would suggest that
parents dust off their Bibles--and their vinyl-- and
provide a few history lessons about where our music
came from, and what it stood for--and against. The
history of our music is more about the spirit…than
the pocket.
Even in an unfair fight, Mississippi Mass
can still take down 50 Cent.
See you next month.
THE GANG LINE: LAUGHING OFF THE SPIRITUAL
BY MIKE RAMEY
Tip From The Old School: Be aware of your child’s
friends and acquaintances. Kids & Teens often take
their first drink, smoke their first cigarette or
blunt, commit their first crime, or get involved
with the wrong crowd thanks to those whom they
believe to be ‘good friends’. Teach your child the
difference between ‘good’ and ‘evil’!
If you
have ever spent time in front of your TV watching
some of the offerings from shows like “Gangland” or
“American Gangster” for any length of time, you soon
notice a few things:
1. The
tactics of evil seldom change; they are recycled.
2.
Many of today’s ‘gang leaders’ were ‘brought in’ by
‘friends’.
3.
They are ‘proud’ of the fact that they manipulate
many to do their will.
4.
They get ‘upset’ when THEIR family members get
killed by gang activity.
5.
Lastly, the belief that they can not change is
firmly planted within them.
Of
course, IF the same ‘leadership’ would tell their
thousands of their followers to stay in school,
graduate, steer clear of criminal activity, work
hard at legitimate enterprises AND register to vote,
you would not hear from them--or their gang--ever
again. IF--in addition--the same gang leadership
told their followers to stop breeding OOW children,
get married, and become positive forces in the
church and community, you would see politicians
awarding pardons like confetti.
Modern
street gangs are not ‘social clubs’ like their
predecessors of the last century. Today, they ARE
‘criminal enterprises’ AND ‘religious worship
outlets’ in our post-9/11 world. The reason why law
enforcement, elected officials, social workers, and
church leaders are not effective against their
spread is simple: Many have ‘laughed off’ the
spiritual underbelly of modern gang activity.
Smatterings of Islam, Santeria, Roman Catholicism,
Nazism, Witchcraft, Roman, Egyptian and Greek
Mythology, even gangster history from the 1930s and
40s have been found in the modern gang scene with a
religious twist.
CANNOT DISREGARD THE SPIRITUAL:
As the
‘informed’ continue to shovel more tax money at the
problem, the gangs have been ‘rolling’. THEY believe
in the spiritual side of their activities, even
though many have dismissed the obvious religious
signs.
I
include the realities of the spiritual when I do
presentations on Modern Street Gangs. I’m not one to
‘laugh off the spiritual’ like many power brokers,
gang experts and churches, because of the risks
involved. You see, men, women--and even
teenagers--have been created by God to be drawn to
the spiritual. Each of us, though, have the right to
be drawn to either the light of spiritual matters,
or, revel in the darkness of spiritual trappings. To
deny the spiritual aspect of gang life and not
include such realities in the discussion of
solutions is a formula for disaster of immense
proportions--as we have already been seeing on the
streets of many a city.
Let me
bring you up to speed. Modern Street Gangs (MSGs)
have their own unique rituals, prayers, bibles,
benevolence activity and sacrifices. Gangs have
their own ways of ‘witnessing’ with their signs,
slogans, codes and graffiti. MSGs even have their
own way of ‘canvassing’ or ‘proselytizing’, with
VERY effective results. While they may tweak some of
the visible portions of their rules, the average
gang member views being in a gang a lot like being
in a religious denomination. The difference? While
‘real’ religion is supposed to ‘uplift’ the follower
and community, gangs don’t adhere to this belief.
If you
doubt me, ask some of the former participants of
gang life who are now crippled in their bodies and
minds; maimed in their economic, educational or
relationship choices, or are just plain DEAD from
being a member of the ‘church of the Gangbanger’ was
a benefit.
Their
answers will surprise you--IF they can speak.
THREE DOORWAYS TO THE SOUL--AND RUIN:
Right
about now, there are those who may be reading this
column and are getting uncomfortable about the
discussion of religion. A few in law enforcement,
government, even in the church house will clamor
about the ‘mythical’ separation of church and
state.
Modern
gangs don’t have a problem in mixing the two…to
their advantage.
A few
others among the professional ranks are more
interested in getting their checks and fees rather
than helping the public to be self-sufficient.
Unfortunately, gang members are still going to their
‘churches’, helping to destroy ‘the state’ with
their criminal activities, and will take as many
willing (or unwilling) followers WITH them to the
jailhouse, the church house, and/or the morgue.
The
Bible says that there are works of the flesh
(Galatians, Chapter 5) and, in addition there are
three doorways into the soul that will corrupt even
the best of men and women if they are breached.
These are: the lust of the eyes, the lust of the
flesh, and the pride of life (I John 2:16). These
are the three doorways which gangs use to turn many
a young person into an unfeeling, underachieving,
uneducated killing machine.
Even
some of the ‘good’ teens of society who,
incidentally, may go to church.
What?
You think that it is an ‘accident’ that many of the
colors, signs, and methodology for gangs comes
straight from the Bible? Even Satan and his demons
can read scripture! They just have a problem with
two words: Jesus Christ.
But, I
digress.
How
then are gangs able to recruit, train and ‘make
their own disciples’? Simple. The gang--through
their recruiters--systematically break down the
‘three doorways’ of resistance, and unlock the evil
already stored in the average teen. All it takes to
be ‘successful’ is to breach these doorways alone or
in combination. A little ‘peer pressure’ here, a
little ‘blunting’ there, a little spending money or
some sexual thrills. Mix in some intimidation,
immorality, and ignorance, and you have a gang
member ready to serve their ‘leadership’.
THE CHURCH ASLEEP--AND GANGS LOVE IT:
Like
clockwork, there have been a host of gang tragedies
around the country as the weather has gotten warmer.
Unfortunately, the one group which should be able to
reach out to the gangs (and set the captives free),
support the home, and speak out against sins on the
streets of many a city are too interested in
politics, parties, and entertainment.
Interestingly, there will be FEW churches in our
land who will be holding gang conferences this
spring and summer to expose local gang activity.
However many churches WILL have:
*Political rallies & voter registration drives.
*Fundraisers For HIV/AIDS.
*Lively funeral services for gang slaying victims.
*But
NO conferences to inform their congregations about
gangs.
Gang
activity is like any other vice: It’s ‘out of sight
and out of mind’ as it will hurt some feelings and
point some fingers at those IN churches who are
either involved in MSGs, or, those who ‘support’
such activities from the sidelines. It seems that
many churches have been ‘laughing’ off the spiritual
side of gangs as well.
Which
is EXACTLY what the gangs want to continue to have
happen.
See
you next month.
THE GANG LINE: GIRLS
NIGHT--WHAT!?
BY MIKE RAMEY
Tip From The Old School: A Single Parent CAN be JUST
as effective as Two Parents in the supervision of
children IF they choose to become pro-active vs.
re-active. However, marriage is God’s BEST model for
parenting success with children!
When I had left the substitute teaching
ranks back in the late 90s, school administrators
were beginning to see a rise in girl on girl
disruptions and disputes. Now--nearly ten years
later--we have teachers breaking up even MORE fights
between 13 through 17 year old female students on a
DAILY basis.
During my time as an Intensive--and later as
a School Based Probation Officer with a juvenile
court, the number of teen females who arrived on my
caseload for violent and/or major offenses
increased. Not only this, but more and more teen
females of school age ARE getting involved in the
gang scene.
In larger cities girl gangs have been in
place for a long time. As I write this particular
column, there are FIVE identified female MSGs
(Modern Street Gangs) in my city. Word on the street
is that in rural areas, there are girls who are
starting their own gangs.
Unfortunately, the criminal justice system refuses
to believe that Sharon and/or Shanniqua--aided in
some cases by their mothers and/or older, female
relatives--are putting their own spin on street
violence--girrl style. Interestingly enough, many
feminists, social workers and education
leaders--most of them female--have remained quiet
about or are blissfully ignorant of this ‘new
trend’.
FROM ACCESSORIES…TO PREDATORS:
Time for a history lesson. From the 1950s to
the mid-1970s juvenile females were seen (and used)
as accessories by many street gangs. They were
placed in such ‘lofty’ posts as look out, drop zone,
or get away driver.
Girls were viewed by boys--and the
system--as coat holders and initiation helpers.
That is--until the feminist movement kicked
into gear.
The unanticipated side effect? Older women
declared by action and deed that they no longer
‘had’ to teach girls how to be girls. A ‘hardening’
of the attitudes of what constituted a quality young
woman began to take root in society. Even in the
church, women felt ‘bound’ by Proverbs 31 or the
Books of Ephesians or Titus. They ‘freed’ themselves
(mentally) to ‘do their own thing’ by the spirit of
the age.
But wait, there IS more!
The late 1980s saw girl gangs growing with
their own rules and reputations. By the 1990s, girl
gangs were entrenched in major cities, and moving to
the secondary cities. By the end of the 1990s, more
and more young women were heading to prison for more
violent offenses. Our new millennium has seen the
rise of more sexually aggressive female teachers;
teen girls calling teen boys at all hours of the
day/night for dates, and more and more teen girls
staging in school gladiator fights to show who is
the ‘baddest chick on the hall’.
This next section is not for the faint at
heart.
RACISM ABOUNDS AMONG WHITE FEMINISTS:
Not to shock anyone, but the ‘first’
generation of young women after modern feminism have
not experienced the ‘liberation’ that their older
female counterparts proclaimed. Young Black and
Hispanic women are not seen as ‘equals’ by their
white female counterparts. There are more and more
young women of color heading to juvenile hall, jail
and prison, and fewer and fewer programs developed
by women to reach them! Of course, there are dozens
of programs being compiled and run by women AND men
for wayward boys, complete with grants and
equipment. Thus young women are not only angry; they
have taken to the very behaviors that feminists
‘claimed’ not to like in men and boys ‘just‘ to get
some overdue attention from their mothers or other
older women in positions of authority. Amidst the
anger is some ‘street wisdom’. The DLS (dirty little
secret) is that teen females KNOW that the courts
won’t hold them as accountable as their male
counterparts. All they have to do upon arriving in
court is dress nice, mention their self-esteem
issues and the press and public seem to ‘wish away’
the fact that one girl ‘shanked’ another girl for
talking to ‘her 15 year old man’ in the hallway of
the local middle school.
Let’s be honest here. The chief reason WHY
we have girls in gangs RESTS with the women in their
lives, and the lack of spiritual training. In my
home city, girl bangers arrived in several CARLOADS,
with OLDER females--INCLUDING mothers and aunts--to
‘settle’ a score, and ‘handle some business’ with
one or two local teen girls from school. During the
early fall of 2007, a few girls showed up on the
doorstep of two female rivals. Their brother and
mother tried to stop a fight. Shots were fired by
the visiting teen female terrors. The brother died
at the scene, and the mother--who was pregnant--was
hospitalized, in serious condition.
A MATTER OF ORDER:
As a pastor myself, I know how easy it is
for society to point the finger of blame at the
church. Frankly, the modern church HAS been guilty
of being more interested in pizza parties and
bringing kids and teens to Sunday Schools, rather
than encouraging their parent or parents in becoming
Christians, and having THEM bring their OWN children
to church.
Today’s churches KNOW they need a better
dynamic. When I talk with fellow pastors and find
out what they are NOT doing to strengthen the homes
in their communities, it sickens me.
The TRUE source of spiritual training DOES
rest with the HOME! Marriage was the first
institution ordained by God, followed by the family.
The New Testament maintains that parents/guardians
have the primary responsibility in training family
members as to their spiritual and moral duties.
AFTER that, older men of the church are to be
training younger men, and older women training
younger women.
When a girl can jack a car, break down a
‘nine’ or roll a joint better than she can cook,
clean, and work on her lessons, there is a problem
at HOME. Any solution in breaking teen girls out of
their gang mentality RESTS with encouragement and
teaching to rebuild the authority of the home.
Whosoever wins the White House--or Congress--will
never have as much impact upon children than
parents.
My closing words this month are aimed at
older women in the home, church, and corporate
America. Shame on you for abandoning your younger
sisters in pursuit of your own ambitions, thrills
and chills. Twenty years ago, you were quick to
‘tell’ men what they weren’t doing when they
were trying to get teen boys to pulling their pants
and attitudes up. Ten years ago, some of you picked
up the mantra: “Well, I don’t NEED a Man”…but you
had help getting pregnant by someone. Presently, we
now are seeing young women--some of them your
daughters--partially angry at you for not having
enough time to spend with them.
This is not my message, but the message some
of your younger female counterparts have been
spilling across desktops while they have been on
probation, or, parole. The real struggle over the
next decade will be re-training young women to be
MORE than gang members. There is no sin in learning
to cook, clean and sew or getting married before
having children. These are the traits of home
builders.
One of the worst messages a mother can get
from her daughter is the following: “If only my
mother…” in the midst of a court hearing on a major
criminal charge.
See you next month.
THE
GANG LINE: WALKING IN THEIR SHOES
BY MIKE RAMEY
Old School Tip: Communicate daily with your
child about happenings in school, the neighborhood,
etc. Such conversations unearth items on gang
activity in your area! Don’t wait for the six
o’clock news to tell you about gang activity in your
own hood!
I was getting a haircut in my local barber shop not
that long ago, when I happened to notice a young man
in the waiting area with his shirt turned inside
out. The color of his shirt was blue, but the number
on the BACK of his shirt was reversed, and clearly
visible.It was the number 5--traditionally
associated with ‘People Nation’ or ‘Red based’
Modern Street Gangs (MSGs). While the young man
couldn’t have been more than twelve or thirteen
years old, he had a grasp of street issues that made
him wise. The number on his shirt and the COLOR of
his shirt did NOT go together in this neighborhood.
He had enough sense to know what he had to do to
avoid a beating--or worse--from a possible
‘offended’ gang member. The young man turned his
shirt inside out and ‘ducked’ the number for
safety. Since the neighborhood where the barbershop
was located was in Vice Lords (and other
miscellaneous gangs sympathetic to them) territory,
the teen had enough wisdom to avoid potential
problems. If a child had such wisdom, then how is
it that parents, the police, and government
officials ‘miss it’ when it comes to gangs in their
cities and communities? Could it be that many who
profit from examining gangs think more of the money
to be made on ‘the grant train’ rather than putting
the existing gangs in their cities in check?
OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES:
In terms of the street, my young brother was wearing
something that could have been interpreted as a
‘slam’ (insult) to a gang. He knew what many adults
do not want to admit…there IS trouble in paradise.
The young are waiting for the adults of their
communities--especially their parents--to ‘catch up’
and ‘admit’ that there ARE gang problems in our
respective neighborhoods, and deal with the
offenders. This is one of the sub-issues within the
modern gang scene. Until those in positions of
authority admit gangs exist (instead of living in
denial) we will ‘allow’ the mayhem in our streets,
schools and churches to continue. Let us be blunt.
The good teens of our communities cannot confront
the evils of the gang culture alone! They need for
their parents and other adults to back them up when
evil comes. Too many teens have heard that they need
to tell an adult whenever such activity is sighted,
but when they start calling adults for ‘back up’;
many adults are AWOL, and nowhere to be found. In
fact, parental ignorance continues to abound when it
comes to the gang issue. Let me provide an example.
A pastor friend of mine invited me to speak to a
graduating class of church counselors as to some of
the things they would be confronting as they went
about offering comfort to some of the troubled teens
in our city. I put forth the ‘basics’ of the MSG
scene, including clothing and lifestyle cues. The
counselors took notes on my presentation, got their
certificates, and all was well with the world. My
pastor friend later informed me that his
nine-year-old daughter talked a blue streak about my
presentation on the way home. She had provided my
friend with even MORE information on the gangs
operating around her neighborhood. It seemed that
Dad had gotten an earful of reality because of what
his daughter was seeing on a daily basis in her
world. Needless to say, there have been more
conversations on this issue between them.
KIDS AND TEENS ARE NOT DUMB:
Parents--whether you are single or married or
foster--please remember that communications between
you and your children are a two way street. We
cannot say that our ‘door’ is open to their
questions if we are not on the other side of it when
they need us! The Bible instructs us who are adults
NOT for forget our youth. The reason for such an
admonition rests with the shape of our hearts when
we become parents. It gives us an added bit of
wisdom when our kids wind up in some of the same
‘pits’ we were in when we were THEIR age. One of
the sad commentaries of our modern times is that
many parents have forgotten their youth. They have
also forgotten their role as authority of the home
as society has demanded that the home ‘trust’ its
authority to media pundits, self-help shows and
counseling twits on flat screens. When trouble
comes, parents are often left holding the bag, as
the ‘experts’ are nowhere to be found…something that
delights many a gang member today.
THE REAL MARKETING PLAN:
Let me hasten to add that another group who are
happy over parental inaction are those in the
marketing game. They are targeting your purse or
wallet THROUGH your children. Their cause? To
‘enrich’ the entertainment or sports industry--no
matter how harmful their wares may be. In the
marketing mix of today one has a hit movie when one
has a video game, a hit soundtrack and accompanying
video (with high rotation), plus a ton of publicity
BEFORE the movie is released. ‘Street Credibility’
(a.k.a. the MSG ‘lifestyle’), is also part of the
marketing plan. The rougher, more tattooed, more
vulgar the personality, the more money that can be
made from MP3 downloads, and other revenue boosters.
No, the marketers are not ‘denying’ that there are
street gangs…they are making money off of their
misery, and injecting JUST enough entertainment to
separate families from their money. Unfortunately,
the sports kabal have been having separate problems
with the real marketing plan. Much of today’s sports
paraphernalia has been assimilated into the gang
lifestyle. Team jerseys can be bought or custom
made. It is not by chance that NFL, NBA, MLB and
even College/University sports teams are used by
gangs as their ‘colors’.
12 TO 18 MONTHS VS. 3 TO 5 YEARS:
If you think that I am exaggerating, please remember
that it wasn’t very long ago when young men knew how
to keep their pants up, and young women knew how to
keep their skirts down. Modesty, sexual
responsibility, along with mental and moral purity
was held to be ‘cool’. No longer. The ‘jail/prison’
life is held in high sway. Yes, there is more. Every
12 to 18 months from constitutions, to membership
rituals, to music, gangs undergo changes as some in
society catch on to their codes and signs. The last
change on the street saw more gangs aligning
themselves with either the Red or Blue Nation color
scheme. Thus, a Red-based gang in Los Angeles would
be acceptable or could form an alliance with a
red-based gang in Chicago, and/or a red-based gang
in New York, regardless of race--in some cases.
Their enemies would be the same--even in prison,
jail, detention or street. Sadly, it takes an
average city government some three to five YEARS to
develop a top-to-bottom plan to combat MSGs--that
is, IF they admit that gangs are active in their
city.Many of us need to take a deep breath and begin
to walk a mile in our children’s shoes. We need to
be up front with our kids about what is REALLY out
in the neighborhood. When trouble does come--and it
will--we can give our teens more to stand on than
turning a shirt inside out. Perhaps--parents--we can
spread some terror of our own. Perhaps we can ‘lock
up’ those who would dare inflict terror on our
children, churches, schools and communities. That,
my friends, is up to you! See you next month.
THE GANG LINE: THE ‘NO SNITCH’ SOLUTION?
DON’T CALL ME BROTHER!
Tip
From The Old School: Should Your Child Be Arrested,
DO NOT ONLY Rely Upon A Public Defender. FIND The
Money And PAY For A Private Attorney With Experience
In Juvenile Justice Issues. DO NOT Play Your Child’s
Rights ‘Cheap’!
Many
of those who work in, or have worked in law
enforcement, the courts, or the prisons ALWAYS get a
good laugh when the subject of the infamous "No
Snitch" code comes up. It does not exist…except in
someone’s imagination.
Since
I have worked as a probation officer in a juvenile
court with male and female teen offenders from
truants to armed robbers, let me share some truths.
*Point
One: The ‘No Snitch’ Code is a L.I.E.
*Point
Two: He/She who gets to the police, and/or the
prosecutor/district attorney FIRST, OFTEN gets the
BEST DEAL!
*Point
Three: If I needed information on a particular
case which involved a threat to a juvenile, or the
general public welfare, I found more than enough
‘birds’ who were willing to sing their little heads
OFF!
Sure.
I had received more than my share of threats--from
teens and their parents--especially when it came to
‘putting a teen away’ for some time in a state
facility. However, when the lawyers, my clients,
their family members and the judge were all seated
before the bench in either a violation, commitment
or services hearing, no one could ‘plead’ ignorance.
The rules were spelled out well in advance.
There
IS no honor…among thieves.
THE NO SNITCH CODE IS NOT NEW--ONLY REPACKAGED:
The
current version of the ‘No Snitch’ code has two very
successful ‘street and Internet bootlegs’ floating
around. Newspaper articles, and television talking
heads have been treating this as if it is something
‘new’.
The
DLS? It’s as old as the gangsters of the prohibition
era.
Remember how they were ‘turned out’? Eventually, the
public got tired of the Capone Mob, Murder Inc., and
the Commission. Over the course of time, corrupt
cops, elected officials and appointed lackeys were
swept out of office simply because a few brave souls
INSIDE of these organizations ‘spilled their guts’
to law enforcement. They ‘got tired’ of the carnage,
the dirty deals, and the poisoned politics that made
sure the criminal got off free while the victim was
six feet under, and their families were destroyed.
Fear
was overcome and justice won out.
You
see, fear is only an effective weapon when folk are
truly scared. Eventually, those who are
fearful--over the course of time--get a bellyful and
decide that it was better to stand on their feet
rather than crawl on their knees.
The
‘color’ of the man or woman who is making you
fearful is truly a nasty slice of life when it is of
your OWN race. To counter this, a saying: “When one
gets sick and tired of being sick and tired,
then--and ONLY then--will action be taken to correct
the problem.” With fear successfully tossed over the
side, the old gangsters were eventually outgunned by
the truth, and the constitutional amendment that
started prohibition was also repealed.
Fast
forward some 50 years.
A new
wave of gangsters in the form of Modern Street Gangs
are in the terror business. This time, they use the
media, a pushed materialism agenda, and the
manipulation of the truth of the criminal justice
system to encourage teens and pre-teens to ‘roll the
dice’ on a life of crime. These new ‘fearmongers’
dress well and talk slick in order to line their own
pockets. They also use the subtle art of
intimidation against their OWN race in order to
impress someone higher up in the crime or
entertainment business.
They
don’t impress nor intimidate yours truly.
Why?
Right
is right, and wrong is wrong. The truth WILL hunt
down a LIE and blow it out the sky, whether those
involved are living in a shack, or a mansion.
PARENTS--WAR NEEDED TO BE DECLARED ON THUGS:
A few
years, I was standing in a parking lot after
midnight trying to console the mother of a teen that
I knew. He and a questionable friend were out riding
around in the family car. One teen got locked up for
mouthing off to the cops, and the other was set
free. Guess who got to tell ‘his’ story to the
mother? Right. ‘Mr. Questionable’. Not only was he
set free, but he tried to turn the jail experience
into something ‘needed’ for the mother of the teen
that was locked up. “Oh…well he stood up to the
cops. You just have to let him go on his way, ‘cause
he needs room to grow…”. And so on, and so forth. It
didn’t strike me until later that ‘Mr. Questionable’
was walking around free to give the explanation
while the other teen was in a jailed location. Why
mother permitted her son to hang around with ‘Mr.
Questionable’ is beyond me, but her son learned a
valuable lesson that night. Whether or not that
would be a life lesson learned is anyone’s guess.
Their truly is NO honor among thieves.
I have
read several dozen arrest reports over the years
describing how one or two teens who had no business
involved in a discussion between the police and a
friend--or a family member--and figured that they
had to ‘jump bad’ with the police. The ‘funny’ of
the police report was that the person whom they were
questioning was eventually let go; but the person
who decided that they wanted to be a street corner
lawyer was locked up.
A GREAT COUNTERPOINT:
In
wrapping up our time together this month, permit me
to remind parents and teens--again--that the ‘No
Snitch’ Code is a LIE that needs to be EXPOSED
regardless of how many DVD’s are made, marketed, and
released! It CAN NOT be stated any better, or
simpler.
Manipulation by intimidation only leads to
DESTRUCTION! Everyone loses when crime is allowed to
continue unchecked, and criminals are allowed to
prosper at the expense of our race, or the general
public.
I have
a solution for those who ‘support’ the ‘No Snitch’
Code. It is based in biblical record, and simple
truth. In fact, a few might consider this a cruel
tactic but it might wake up many of the thugs and
accomplices in the gang scene. But, let me set this
up.
A few
years ago, there was a song that was released
entitled: “Don’t Call Me Brother!” The summation of
the song: Those in our community who ACTIVELY abuse,
neglect, hurt, or maim a member of their own race
have NO right to attempt to relate themselves to
that race, or claim that racial identification. Now,
I can ‘see’ a few folk reading this column who
remember the song, and are nodding in their minds as
to that solution. The biblical solution to those who
like to build their resume on the backs of their
race is to ‘shun’ such people who delight in doing
wrong--even IF they are active in the local church.
In spite of their being told about the right way
multiple times, these TRAITORS refuse to listen.
Thus, they need to be ‘turned over’ to the streets
they love so well until they ‘wise up’ and want to
come back and be upright people.
The
‘No Snitch’ crowd still live in some of our homes,
eat our food, and are having their ways and bills
paid by our generosity in some cases. Perhaps, IF
their actions had consequences, they would become
upright citizens like the rest of the community.
Its
time the ‘No Snitch’ crowd discover the pain of
being ostracized.
Just
tell them: “Don’t Call Me Brother”…and MEAN it!
Then...call the police!
And…if
any of you ‘No Snitchers’ want to ‘whine‘ about my
words? You have my email address. See the rest of
you next month!
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THE GANG LINE: BREAKING DOWN THE ‘NO SCHOOL’ WALL
Tip From The Old School: Check your child’s locker
AT SCHOOL! It will reveal some interesting items
that never ‘seem’ to make it home--including gang
clothing!
The gang issue has NEVER been about whether
or not the general public knows about gangs. The
public has ALWAYS known about them--right back to
the Prohibition days. The public wants to know two
things: A) What is government in its various guises
and forms DOING with tax revenue given by its
citizens to fight crime, and; B) When will
government get out of the away and allow parents to
deal with their OWN kids who may be encouraged,
enticed, or extorted to join local gangs.
Let’s be honest. Gang-related matters have
gone beyond the hood and moved into the suburbs,
rural areas and criss-crossed the seven seas.
London, Berlin, Paris, Sidney and Saudi Arabia EACH
report problems with bangers INFLUENCED by rap music
and training on “How To Be A Gang Member from the
Internet.”
Many gangs EVEN have their own websites!
Amen lights!
How close may gang issues be? Well, a few
blocks from my home, a meeting building had been
tagged with gang graffiti. The owners of the
building had enough sense to cover the graffiti over
with paint. It has not been tagged again.
This is also how close the battle rages.
Members of the public in my city did not like the
fact that some teens were flirting with gang
activity, and took action. When the public is
encouraged to get involved in the fight against
modern street gangs (MSGs), the gangs LOSE. When the
public is encouraged to be powerless, satisfied in
their victimhood and let government take care of
everything the gangs WIN. An ALERT parent or parents
are the ENEMIES of street gangs. Any parent or
parents who are more concerned about their ‘creature
comforts’ are ALLIES of street gangs.
That’s the issue in a nutshell.
There are people in government, law
enforcement, community services, the courts, social
work, and academia who would rather let the public
be uninformed about gangs so that they can continue
to draw healthy grant paychecks to continue
‘research’. In reality, parents can break the grip
of Modern Street Gangs (MSGs). However, it won’t
come without struggle AND an admission that gangs
are a problem, once again.
You won’t hear this from the cops,
politicians or ‘gang experts’.
You WILL hear it in this column, in the
months to come.
THE NEED FOR THIS COLUMN:
The purpose for my monthly column is to
separate fact from fiction about gang issues and the
resulting hype. As a former award-winning broadcast
and print reporter and columnist, a veteran
substitute teacher and felony-level probation
officer for a juvenile court, I’ve seen first hand
what gangs can--and can not--do; how they have
mutated over the years into MSGs, AND how political
and law enforcement infighting has blocked efforts
to inform the public as to the solutions to slow the
spread of street gangs.
We’ve watched the floor show. Now, let’s
work on the solutions.
As Lead Instructor of THE GANG LINE, I
address the MSG issue from the additional vantage
point of the spiritual dangers--something few gang
specialists have tackled. I also serve as the Pastor
of The Forward Church, Indianapolis, Indiana.
FROM THE FILES:
The FIRST thing one should remember; a
gang-- ANY gang--is composed of individuals. The
person who wants to disrupt a Modern Street Gang is
going to have to do so by empowering the parents of
the individuals IN the gang to get them out with as
much determination as the leaders OF the gangs want
new recruits. Government grants and studies do NOT
impress gang members. Gangs have used prayer marches
and prayer vigils as recruitment tools. Bangers are
not scared of judges, politicians, reporters, cops,
or socials workers. However, hit them with their OWN
words and shine the spotlight of TRUTH on them
through their parent or guardian, and it slows them
to a crawl!
Here’s a personal illustration from my files
when I was a Probation Officer.
One afternoon, one of my clients, his
mother, and his older brother came to the court
building. This particular session involved
determining where my client would be going to
school. His mother and his brother had ‘decided’
that my client would be able to live with his
brother for the remainder of his probation. Older
brother had to be asked some questions in order to
determine if his home would meet the legal
requirements (food, bills paid, how many responsible
adults, etc).
During the interview, I noticed that older
brother (who had recently turned 21) had some
animosity towards his mother to the point that I had
to remind him that his mother was to be respected.
He did not like being corrected...especially in
front of his mother. Older brother provided me with
a firm introduction to the No School crowd,
beginning with his mantra of: “It is up to you to
respect me!” I informed him that, 1.) I was just as
Black as everybody else in the room, and; 2.) after
about an hour of genteel Q and A, his verbal skills
were no match for mine. “Brother,” I told him, “The
day I can’t out-think a youngblood like you, is the
day I need to find another job.” Older brother’s
eyes were glowing with the heat of hatred, and the
fact that he had been bested by someone he
underestimated.
WELCOME TO THE ‘NO SCHOOL’ ZONE:
As we wrap up our first column, let me break
down the matter of the ‘No School’ crowd, and
provide some good news to those who work with
troubled youth and their families. The ‘No School’
crowd is the latest incarnation of ‘Me, Myself, and
I’ or ‘I did it MY way.’ In other words, some young
people of today seem to think that if I yell loud
enough and get ‘in your face’ enough, it will
triumph over wisdom and experience.
BALDERDASH!
Many of these angry, prideful, and
materialistic teens seem to forget that there is a
Payday coming for them in the realm of adulthood.
Just a few years up the road; just a few more
birthdays and they will no longer be ‘cute’. As one
pastor I heard speak on the subject, just to
paraphrase him: “Some of today’s teens are so
ignorant, they couldn’t find a job during
SLAVERY!!!” No Schoolers come to admit their need
for help and wanting out of the gang life very
quickly after several things happen:
1. A family member is injured or killed due
to gang violence.
2. The individual is made to realize that
they have missed TOO much school.
3. There is NO place on a job application
for ‘Thugg Skills’.
4. They hear that prison door slam and they
have time to think about their crimes.
5. They hear through the grapevine that
their ‘banger buddies’ sold them out!
No Schoolers quickly whine about the faults
of adults in authority WITHOUT admitting that they,
too have their OWN share of faults. The trick is for
the wise parent, church member, pastor, or community
leader to become BOTH transparent AND reflective
WITHOUT sacrificing AUTHORITY! The unified message
that needs to be carried? IF you choose crime, the
long term costs ALWAYS exceeds the short term rush!
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