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25 Things That Really Matter In Life by Gary A. Johnson

Reviewed by Brandon Whitney

I recently read "25 Things That Really Matter in Life."  I have read many books that attempt to break through the self built barriers to success that most people possess.  Many are good but they are often long and filled with unnecessary fluff.  They often piggyback on older books like "Think and Grow Rich" or "How To Win Friends and Influence People".  Gary does not fall into these traps.  Rather, he in simple and direct terms, explains how he pushed himself to operate a successful business and overcome depression and how others can do the same. 

In the book Gary explains what matters to him and why.  He shows how faith led him to start his own business, the joy that family brings, and even the importance of great sex.  What really stands out about the book is the portion that asks the readers to list the 25 things that matters to them.  This is a very personal part of the book that allows the readers, if they are serious about truly becoming successful and happy, to figure out what they truly want so that they plot their own direction in life rather than letting others do it for them. 

I truly enjoyed 25 Things and recommend it to anyone who is unsure of where they want to go in life and to those who know the course they want to travel but want to enrich the journey.

Brandon Whitney is the creator of Homelandcolors.blogspot.com a blog that focuses on issues that affect the African American community.

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“The Nick of Time” by San Culberson

Four stars (****) for San Culberson’s, “The Nick Of Time.”  Fasten your seatbelts and prepare for a roller-coaster ride with Ms. Fiona Daniels as she attempts to build herself a new reality, using her past experiences in a failed marriage as a compass.  Fiona, the lawyer, thinks she knows everything there is to know about a man. Along with a cast of well developed characters, this page turner offers up lots of humor to make the childish, selfish behavior of Fiona tolerable.   Her capricious decision to intentionally seduce a handsome stranger, the caterer of her divorce celebration-party, soon evolves into more that she bargained for.   To Fiona’s delight there was much more to Nick than a six pack, and a one night stand.

Fiona’s mother, Rita Mae, and Nicole, best friend to Fiona are always there to pick up the pieces, and Fiona will soon need all the help she can get after her sister, Ramona’s secret life is uncovered.  Can’t give away the plot, but this book is well written, an excellent read, and highly recommended.

Submitted by:  Shirley Hardiman, Chicago, IL

Want to learn more?  Click here to visit the official San Culberson web site.

  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Dafina (December 1, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0758215207
  • ISBN-13: 978-0758215208
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 6 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces

 

 

Daaimah S. Poole’s “All I Want Is Everything” takes the reader on the journey of a young woman seeking to fulfill her dream of becoming a superstar in the music industry.  Along the way Kendra Michelle discovers she had to confront, and beat back the demons of lust and power that controlled the industry she thought would accept her because of her innate singing ability.

At the age of 25, while working as a bar and restaurant waitress, Kendra has a chance encounter with an old high school friend, Inez, who appeared to have made a success of her life.  Inez accompanied by several friends queried and mocked Kendra about how on earth the “talented, most likely to succeed Kendra” ended up working in a bar.  This was the turning point in Kendra’s life.  Reflecting on the hard times she had endured to survive and support her family since her senior year in high school, Kendra decided to make an effort to pursue her dream of becoming a superstar.        

Kendra was now living with Marcus, an old friend of her brother’s that had been her lover since she was 17 years old.  Although John initially resisted his sister’s relationship with Marcus, he’d come to accept it through the years.  Marcus, on the other hand, was resistant to Kendra quitting her job to pursue a singing career, but soon agreed to support this endeavor. 

Kendra finally lands a contract, with a signing bonus of $80,000.00.  She was on her way.  First stop, a new Benz, gifts, and cash to her mother, sister, and brothers, and of course, Marcus.  Kendra was used to taking care of her family, so next was a $10,000.00 down payment on a house for mom.  In no time Kendra was just about broke.  However, she was now in New York, cutting a CD, schmoozing with the movers and shakers. Marcus soon left Kendra.  After her deal with the recording studio was cancelled, Kendra soon found herself willing to do anything to get her music “out there.”  She was willing to, and participated in sexual acts that she previously could not have imagined, all in hopes of getting a contract.  This too failed.

Ultimately, Kendra ends up back where she came from, with Marcus and looking for a job.  After many trials and tribulations, Kendra decided to give it another try.  This time, she has the support of her brother John, her mother, sister Bubbles, and brother Bilal, along with a friend in the industry, Beazie.  Kendra eventually realized her dream, and attributed it all to her perseverance in achieving the dream she had always held in her heart, that is, “All I Want Is Everything.”   

“All I Want Is Everything” is a nice read, however, Ms. Poole could use an editor or a very good proofreader because often there were whole words missing, and /or absence of punctuation.  To learn more about Daaimah S. Poole visit her official web site at: www.daaimahspoole.com.

Submitted by:  Shirley Hardiman 2-27-08

 

Book Review:  Caught Between a Dream and a Job by Delatorro McNeal II

By Gary A. Johnson

Caught Between a Dream and a Job by Delatorro McNeal II is one of the best books I’ve ever read to help people smoothly and successfully transition from the “job” to their “dream job” of self-employment.  What makes this book so great?  The book is well researched, well written, well paced and easy to read.  Delatorro McNeal uses relevant and personal examples and summary page at the end of each chapter to help the reader understand the concepts outlined in the book.

McNeal’s grounding as a former “9-to-5” guy who transitioned into his dream job of professional speaker and best-selling author gives the book instant credibility.  He’s experienced what he’s written.

This book includes practical worksheets that McNeal uses to connect with the reader in a positive and reaffirming way.  This technique serves as an author/reader partnership.  For me the most important aspect of the book are the sections on motivation, spirituality, determination, dreaming and purpose.

In summary, this book is one the most comprehensive books on motivation and career change.  If you apply the principles outlined in the book you will change your life and positively impact the lives of your family and friends.

Delatorro L. McNeal, II is a world renowned Professional Speaker, Best Selling Author, Successful Entrepreneur, and Television Personality. As the CEO and President of Delatorro Worldwide Empowerment, Delatorro operates three blossoming corporations.  Visit his web site at www.delmcneal.com to learn more.

 

Healing Grace for Hurting People by Dr. H. Norman Wright and Larry Renetzky, LMFT

Healing Grace for Hurting People is a spiritual and uplifting book for people who are hurting in any number of ways.  If you are suffering or hurting from abuse, addiction, rejection or infidelity, "Healing Grace" has something for you.

Through the stories of others and the use of diagrams this book helps you navigate through your pain.  Of particular interest to me are the specific steps and practical applications.  My personal favorite is "Steps To Forgiving Others." 

Learn how God's reconciling grace and power can resolve conflicts, revitalize marriages heading for divorce and restore broken relationships in families, extended families and other relationships.

 

Red Letters by Tom Davis

Convicting, real, tantalizing, reflective, hopeful, alarming, inspiring, shocking, painful, shameful, silence…         

          These are just a few words to describe Tom Davis’s Red Letter’s (2007), a text which brings forth the words of Jesus Christ which he refers to as “Red Letters” because in many Bibles when Jesus speaks the letters that form each word are red; when others speak, the letters are black. 

          In this book, Davis sheds light on the fact that Jesus did not come for the wealthy, healthy, or self proclaimed “perfect”, he came for the poor, the sick, and the troubled.  One of the most profound statements made in this book appears on page 20, where Davis proclaims, “Every morning when I get out of bed, I look for Jesus…I’m talking about finding Jesus in the eyes of real people…like the poor, the handicapped, the oppressed, the homeless, the AIDS victim-the abandoned and the forgotten.”  One may ask, “What does this mean?”  This means that signs of Christ are all around; we are created in God’s image – rich, poor, healthy, ill, depressed, and lively.  Our response to those in need in comparison to Christ's response may suggest that somewhere along the way of passing the story of Christ, the truth was distorted.  One may ask, “What is the truth?” The truth is that Jesus was poor; he was born to a carpenter in a manger filled with dung.  A rebuttal may be, “Well the Word says that if I ask for anything in Jesus name, I shall receive it.  If he can do it for me, why couldn’t he do it for himself?”  Why?  Jesus sets an example that we all should live; an example of sacrifice, one where we put others before ourselves.  This text is structured to make the “comfortable” uncomfortable because there are intentional inclusions of how self proclaimed non-believers in Christ give of themselves and resources to the less fortunate, often times, before a self proclaimed believer will. Far too often we ignore (for whatever reason) the reality that there are millions of people suffering in this world, while we fight to remain comfortable and allegedly protected. Davis addresses our need to make lip service, foot service when he asserts, “If our Christian faith doesn’t manifest into something that helps the life of another human being, it doesn’t mean squat to him [Jesus]” (128).   The impact of these words is visible in Davis’s compassion for those battling HIV/AIDS in places such as Africa, Asia, and China.  The wealth we possess in the Western World, with a few minor sacrifices, could render someone medical treatment, and even with statistics staring us in the face such as 64.4 percent of the African region, 21.4 percent of the Asian region, and 5.4 percent of high income communities being effected with AIDS, far too many of us have yet to move our feet to help our neighbor.

          This text includes lively examples on various levels.  Davis shares stories of teenage girls selling their bodies in order to feed younger siblings left behind due to parents dying with AIDS.  He also shares a lie that is causing mass destruction in Africa; that when a man infected with AIDS sleeps with a virgin, he is cured. This lie is wiping out a generation of virgins who are being infected with the virus during their first sexual encounter.  There are other accounts of towns being wiped out due to AIDS related deaths.  Equally disturbing is the rate at which genocide is destroying the Sudan; causing death and displacement.  The details in this book are alarming and depressing, yet they are real and the disparities destroying communities exist because we have been

non responsive; our lack of response alludes to the reality that we allow these things to take place.  On a brighter note, numerous contributions to humanity by way of Africa are included such as many biblical events took place on the continent, and the first sign of human existence was discovered there.  And just when you want to deny the churches role in slavery, Davis sheds light on the fact that the church overlooked what was “happening to these Africans in the name of commerce and expansion and misappropriated evangelical intent”  (53).  While the text leads us on a journey to evaluate our walk in comparison with the expectations of Christ (conveyed in red letters), the author includes a variety of ways we can change our slow-to-respond nature so that we can be God’s hands, meeting the real needs of real people.

By Roberta Sonsaray White

 

 

Making Your Money Count by Kenneth C. Ulmer, PH.D.

BOOK REVIEW – Submitted by Kelly Y Alexander

January 13, 2008

Making Your Money Count by Kenneth C. Ulmer, PH.D.

We all struggle with the responsibility we have as Christians to be good stewards of the money God has given us. In Making Your Money Count, Bishop Kenneth Ulmer has provided readers with a practical guide on the subject based on God's word.  In this book, Bishop Ulmer focuses on the five blessings of money, indicators of approaching  financial challenges, how to avoid financial misfortune, the true purpose of money, seven ways to earn more money and the basics of true prosperity.

Very simply Bishop Ulmer offers a clear and concise message about proper money management. It was  refreshing to finally find a book about financial responsibility that helps a regular person immediately "get it", to quickly grasp an understanding of handling money matters the right way, no matter how much or little money or income a person has. Bishop Ulmer writes in a way that not only explains the basic how-to's and the why's, but also the consequences of dealing with money the wrong way.

Especially significant is how Bishop Ulmer underscores the message that God gave us the ability to create wealth in order for Him to establish His covenant with us, which is to bless us, to glorify Him and to bless others through us. In this amazing process, which Jesus taught to His disciples, Ulmer explores God's way of taking care of business. This generation coming up, explains Dr. Ulmer, will be the first one that is not financially better off than the previous generation.  What kind of legacy are we leaving if we don't train our children about the proper Kingdom principle of asset creation and money management? In this inventive look at the parables of the talents and the man of noble birth, pastor, teacher and author Dr. Kenneth Ulmer reveals God's process for moving you from being a consumer to a producer.  I recommend this book for anyone who wants to build a lasting financial legacy.

 

No Safe Place by Kim Reid

BOOK REVIEW – by Kelly Y. Alexander

January 13, 2008

No Place Safe a family memoir by Kim Reid

Readers are given the chance to be a part of Kim Reid's up-close-and-personal account of the Atlanta Child Murders. The author was just a child of thirteen when the Atlanta Child Murders began in 1979. Her world was turned upside-down as she and her younger sister had to adjust to living and behaving under new safety measures that stifled their carefree life.  Can you imagine being a child and living with the constant threat of a serial killer in your neighborhood?

Her mother's job, as a Task Force investigator on the case, increased Reid's awareness beyond that of any child and probably most adults. Because of this the author is able to offer a well written and unique perspective of this event as a young teenage daughter of an investigator.  She allows the readers an inside glimpse into the feelings of dread, rage, insecurity and the small pockets of enjoyment that she, her family and the community managed to feel throughout this time period. Her description of the city and suburbs of Atlanta is as vibrant and dramatic as the characters she depicts. Readers will appreciate and be in awe of Kim Reid's ability to enjoy the basic beauty of life as can only be seen through the eyes of a young person under very frightening conditions.

No Place Safe is a deftly written and well researched novel.  The novel skillfully explores the Atlanta Child Murders from 2 compelling angles: a girl coming of age during that time and her mother, a lead investigator on several of the cases. The author adeptly combines the intensity of the subject matter with deep insights on family, love, duty, gender, class and race.

To learn more about Kim Reid click here to visit her web site.

BOOK REVIEW – Submitted by Kelly Y. Alexander

January 13, 2008

Ms. Etta’s Fast House by Victor McGlothin

 

From the moment I opened this book I couldn’t put it down.  The characters, setting, the language all came alive with each page I turned.  This novel reads just like a motion picture and it would surely be a good one.

Victor McGlothin has created an intense and proud depiction of African American life in 1947 St. Louis, Missouri.  The story takes place in the St. Louis neighborhood known as the “Ville”, centering on Ms. Etta's Fast House—considered the hottest joint this side of Chicago.   The bold, the beautiful, the bad and the good mingle at Ms. Etta's - including the debonair hustler, Baltimore Floyd. McGlothin weaves convincing historical elements into a fast-moving caper, and Baltimore Floyd is a delightful main character.

Ms. Etta’s Fast House is the place to be also for the young doctors and nurses of the Homer G. Phillips Hospital as well as the local Negro baseball team. But life in the Ville is forever altered when Baltimore Floyd strolls in with a gun and a plan to horn in on a crooked cop's heroin trafficking operation. The author blends realism of the times in the sub-plots surrounding the supporting characters: racism and discrimination force top medical minds to practice at segregated facilities; Jim Crow laws impact the character's daily lives (shopping, dining, commuting, sporting events, etc.); and social taboos of interracial relationships. Victor McGlothin superbly paints Baltimore as a scoundrel with a big-heart. In addition to Baltimore; Ms. Etta, Penny, Delbert, and Jinx are also endearing characters that readers will find irresistible and want to see again.

Respected and loved by many, Baltimore has a circle of friends that include the new interns at the renowned Homer G. Phillips hospital as well as some with shadier pasts. Especially well written is how the author allows the reader to become a part of the relationship between Baltimore Floyd and his best friend Henry, who seemingly does a complete reversal leaving the lush life (including a steamy relationship with Ms. Etta) and hurriedly marries a school teacher with a ready-made family. He even foregoes his friendship with Baltimore and Etta to join/integrate the police force - a move that severs ties from his dark past and con-artist friends. However, when Baltimore crosses dirty, racist cops in a clever scam, sleeps with the "wrong" woman, and ends up on trial for his life, it is all of his friends (including Henry) that come to his aid, risking their reputation, professions and lives to save him from the gallows in a creative, yet dangerous rescue.

Fast paced, well-conceived (I didn't see some plot twists coming and the sub-plots came together well), with realistic and sharp dialogue it is recommended for those seeking a page turning and entertaining read.

To learn more click here to visit Victor’s web site.

 

Healing Grace for Hurting People

Reviewed by Vanessa Werts

Do you have emotional or spiritual baggage?  Are you ready to confront feelings of rejection, fear, and anger?  If so, Healing Grace for Hurting People will give you hope, and the tools to face these issues head on.   

This book is a Christian faith-based guide to dealing with and overcoming hurt, resentment, abuse, guilt and past failures.  The authors, Dr. H. Norman Wright (a licensed marriage, family and child therapist) and Larry F. Renetzky (a licensed marriage and family counselor) offer therapeutic words validated with biblical scripture that allows the heart to heal, thought patterns to change, and the soul to soar through God’s healing grace.   

The authors address real life problems like addiction, suicide attempt, dating, family relationships and troubled marriages.  They share the journeys of real life broken and troubled people they’ve worked with as each one comes face-to-face with the source of their pain, and embarks upon the path to true healing – allowing Jesus Christ to rule in their heart.   

Healing Grace for Hurting People sets the stage for personal reflection, atonement with self and others, and the power of forgiveness.

  • Publisher: Gospel Light Publications

  • Pub. Date: August 2007

  • ISBN-13: 9780830743988

  • 240 pp

A Private Affair by Mike Warren 

A Private Affair takes you on a whirlwind trip into Sean Matthews’ life of confusion, deceit, lies and overall immaturity.  Matthews is a private in the US Army and begins to learn more about himself as he encounters new experiences in his life.  The general theme of the book is to be inside “turning out” of a straight man to, eventually, become gay…or something like that.  Although the character is quite flawed in his actions and the predictability of the story is quite evident, I still found myself reading with anticipation. 

Mike Warren does an amazing job of telling a story, which is his saving grace for “…Affair”.  Overall, you can read the first few chapters and see where this is going.  There are no major twists and turns.  The foreshadowing is VERY foretelling.  And, the characters are fairly simple and consistent.  The story however is much like watching the butterfly emerge from its cocoon.  You know what will happen, yet it is interesting to see it all unfold.  

While Warren is not on the compelling level of say…E. Lynn Harris or Eric Jerome Dickey [yet], he finds a way to guarantee your investment in the reading of his book.  Each character appeals to a different person and as their story is slowly unfurled you find a connection to them and their actions.  Whether you become angry, disappointed or hurt by the characters in the book…you still become something for them.  And, that is what it’s about.   

--lawrence “el-train” evans ii

 

SNAP by Lucio Dutch

Let me first say, Lucio Dutch is an amazing writer who has truly captured the art of drawing a reader in page after page…chapter after chapter.  Have you ever read a book so enthralling that you find yourself sneaking in reading past your regular “bedtime”?  You look over at your alarm clock and realize that despite it creeping past the “night time” mark and your drooping eye lids, you still want to read more.  You tell yourself that you can only read for fifteen more minutes, but once your fifteen minute mark arrives, you are in the middle of a chapter so you, of course, extend it a little longer so you can “finish the chapter”.  This mental compromise usually goes on until you fall asleep and can’t remember when your willpower betrayed you.  SNAP is this type of book. 

Inside of SNAP, places you directly in the mind and life of Victor Sinclair, the main character.  Victor is a privileged youth with everything from good grades and looks to money and respect.  His journey takes him on a metamorphosis that is gradually degenerative. 

As the reader witnesses the deterioration of Victor, inside and out, there are other layers of stories being told.  There is a striking balance of eroticism, humor and suspense as the friends of Victor circulate in their own orbit and attempt to navigate their own lives with just as many different issues that plague Victor. 

One standout style that is quite unique to Dutch, is the “Excuse me while I dance.” sequences within the book.  This is the moment when Dutch steps out and writes at full throttle.   It is usually reserved for the erotic and/or action scenes.  Either way, however, you know that things are about to pick up and it will be time to put on those “dancing shoes” to keep up! 

In spite of the amazing writing style of this book, there is one blaring concern for me.  The age points of the main characters seem rather young.  For such a mature set of events and psycho analysis, it seems odd for this to occur with high school students.  If you can get past the fact that this book chronicles a myriad of events within the lives of teenagers, then you will allow yourself to get caught up…as Lucio “dances”… 

--lawrence “el-train” evans ii

 

Reclaim Your Power! by Terrance Dean

With written support by Iyanla Vanzant and a cover description that boasts hope, healing and inspiration within 30 days for men of color, this book appears to be the perfect addition to any man’s library.  Guess what?  It is! 

The book is a quick and easy read that delivers moments of reflection everyday.  Almost like your own personal life coach in a book, Reclaim… takes you through a 30 day journey that is consistent and impacting.  The set up goes something like this:  Your morning quote, the real talk reflection of the quote and an exercise to bring permanence to the thought.  Seems simple enough huh?  It is. 

Where does the depth come in?  Reclaim… is comprised of quotes by different people from Buddha and the Bible to Martin Luther King Jr. and Ralph Ellison.  The monotony is broken up in the varied use of vernacular.  While the quotes all drive you in the general direction of growth, it’s the direct quotes from such an assorted group of people that adds texture to the cross-view of advice.  Advice that is cultivated around the responsibility, growth and healing of men of color.  If you are prepared for a journey that will reveal more about your life and ways to correct those things you discover, Reclaim… is a good first step. 

--lawrence “el-train” evans  ii

Lawrence “eL-Train” Evans ii, is a graduate of West Virginia University.  He is a Washington, D.C. based writer.  With a strong background in music industry history, he aspires to work in the A&R/Marketing field of the music industry.  Currently he is a writer for BMIA.com and is working on completing his first novel. 

 

Black People: For Entertainment Purposes Only by W. Ivan Wright
ISBN: 9781934249468

Black People: For Entertainment Purposes Only, is a suspenseful fiction thriller that involves, conspiracy, love, murder and revelations. Situations and conversations present an