Multitalented
Tahira Chloe Mahdi is an author, freelance writer and
entertainment reporter. Tahira attended Morgan State University and
the Broadcasting Institute of Maryland. After graduation, she
worked in the radio industries of Baltimore and Washington, D.C. at
such stations as WTEM-AM, WXYV-FM (V103) and WPGC - FM & AM. A
staff writer position with
Take Me Out to the Go-Go Magazine
proved to be more spiritually fulfilling than her radio career, so
Tahira decided to pursue her lifelong dream of being a full-time
writer. Six months later her book, “God
Laughs, Too: Incidents in the Life of a Black Chick”
was completed. Tahira’s new book is called,
“How To Be Queen of The Universe.”
Tahira gave a select few of us a preview of her new book at the
Jessica Tilles “Sweet Revenge”
book launch party.
Tahira will launch her book at the
Karibu Bookstores
the first week of March.
In the
beginning stages of book promotion, Tahira did Public Relations and
Promotion work for
Jokes On Us Comedy Club
and several small D.C. area businesses. The year 2002 brought
Tahira back to broadcast media with her own television talk show,
“Tuff Crowd”, and duties as producer, floor director and fill-in
host for multicultural talk shows and music video programs on
Washington’s WIAV-TV 58.
Currently,
she works as a freelance writer and entertainment reporter for D.C.
based magazines, e-Zines, and television programs - most notably the
Take Me Out to the GoGo DVD Magazine. Her sophomore
effort,
Becoming Queen of the Universe,
is scheduled for any day now.
Tahira has
been writing since the age of 4. Her first writing attempts were
poems, plays and short stories, which she wrote as a hobby. She
showed such a knack with the big fat pencil that she was offered a
scholarship for a college English course when she was in the third
grade. Since she was already the youngest in her class, having
skipped a grade, her parents declined the opportunity.
By the
mid-80's, Tahira - like most writers at the time - had been bitten
by the Hip-Hop bug and her writing was done through rap lyrics. At
Oxon Hill High School, in Maryland, Tahira was able to express
herself creatively with other young Hip-Hop artists for school
talent shows and fun while improving her technical writing through
the school newspaper. Her career path has allowed her to experience
all aspects of media and writing, but Tahira's first love has
remained BOOKS! To learn about the woman that we affectionately
call “Tee” check out our conversation with Tahira below.

The Tahira Chloe
Mahdi Interview
BMIA:
When did you first start writing?
TCM:
I started writing at 4 years old. My
father used to write poems and make my brother and I memorize and
recite them. That experience really helped my early writing
development; unfortunately, it made me not like poetry when I got
older.
BMIA:
Did you always want to be a writer?
TCM:
I always wanted to be a writer, but I
thought it would be something I did as a hobby or when I got to be
old enough to write a lengthy autobiography. I never dreamed I
would have made it a full time career by age 25.
BMIA:
Tell us about your book, “How to Be
Queen Of the Universe?”
TCM:
"How to Be Queen of the Universe"
is a fun, spicy survival guide for women that illustrates how and
why our relationship, career and sexuality issues can be used as
keys to unlock the secrets of divine happiness! With this book, I
actually reestablish my trademark knack for bridging the gap between
spirituality and everyday drama. I guess I'm proving that I can
entertain through nonfiction just as stylishly and shamelessly as I
did through fiction in my first book, God Laughs, Too.
The most fun thing about How to Be Queen of the Universe is
the jaw-dropping bonus that complements the practical and sassy
advice offered. Adding an exhilarating flavor to the modern
self-help recipe, I attached a signature of authenticity by infusing
actual quotes from male and female focus groups whose candid,
hilarious and often shocking sentiments will make readers call their
friends screaming, "Listen to this!"
This indispensable collection of strategies will be relished by
literary thrill-seekers as well as readers who value quality
inspirational reading. I really left no stone unturned in
How to
Be Queen of the Universe,
which I always say, "could easily find its way off the bookshelves
and into the purses - as essential as the compact, I.D. and keys -
of women who dare to take the throne."
BMIA:
Talk about the focus groups that you used and your experiences.
TCM:
Man... Those focus groups were something else! There was one male
group and one female group. Both groups encompassed people of
different ethnicities, geographical locations, ages and
professions. In order to get answers to questions, I sent emails,
conducted in person interviews, made phone calls and whatever else I
had to do in the name of getting down to the nitty gritty of real
relationship issues. Actually, the women's group got off easy. I
asked them questions that gave them the opportunity to share their
own stories of triumph and overcoming things like bad relationships,
illness, and job or career obstacles. This is because women
are good at nurturing, coddling and encouraging other women when it
comes to sensitive issues.
On the other hand, I asked men "REAL" questions on relationships
because I wanted women to get some "REAL" answers. The men were so
passionate about the issues discussed and so eager to share their
thoughts, that I didn't edit their responses to exclude profanity or
things that a woman would view as insensitive or politically
incorrect. If you want to hear something that will comfort you and
validate your feelings, you need to talk to a woman. To hear an
honest opinion - straight with no chaser - you need to talk to a
man. And I learned so much from talking to these men, that I am
foregoing romantic relationships for 2005 while I collect my
thoughts. The thing is... I have game and I've also been
praised for and accused of thinking like a man. However, I know
that if I want to be Queen of the Universe, I'm going to have to do
certain things to keep my wits about me and maintain that upper
hand. (Not in a bad way... You've got to get with Stevie Wonder's
song "That Girl" to understand where I'm coming from. *wink*)
BMIA:
What do you want people to “take away” from your new book?
TCM:
This book shows a woman how to use her own God-given powers to rid
herself of stress, drama, dissatisfaction and unhappiness. We all
go through tough times, but most of them are results of unnecessary
BS we put ourselves through. Through fun strategies,
unconventional introspection, and the basic desire to be happy,
women can gain control of their lives and their issues - instead of
allowing themselves to be bogged down by things that can be very
easily eliminated. How to Be Queen of the Universe is
practical, amusing, and wildly entertaining for women who are ready
to step up and take the throne!
I want women to relinquish the roles of "fool-in-love,"
"damsel-in-distress," "drama queen," and "hopeless romantic"... WHEN
THE TIME IS RIGHT. There is an art to using the
"damsel-in-distress" and "fool-in-love" acts properly and they
should only be used to stroke a man's ego. With this being said,
there is an art to selecting the proper times to stroke a man's
ego. This book will help a woman perfect her skillz.
Also, just as I did with my first book, I push readers to stop
separating their spirituality from life's everyday human behaviors.
Bridging the gap between the two can work wonders!
BMIA:
How much of your personal life is reflected in the book?
TCM:
I am so glad you asked! This book was ALL LEARNING for me. If I’m
the Queen of anything, I’m the Queen of Crash Test Dummies because
you better believe that I went through each and every issue
discussed and investigated in
How to Be Queen of the Universe.
I wrote about some of the issues based on focus group discussions,
extensive book and media research, and even meditation. However, I
found that if I hadn't personally experienced a situation by the
time I included it in the book, I found myself smack dab in the
middle of that situation shortly thereafter. It was like the
Universe was telling me, “Let’s make sure you know what you're
talking about?” And every time I edited the book (at least 30 times
in 2004). I found myself really needing the book and the strategies
presented. This is not coming from me sitting up on high and
telling others what to do; these words are tried, tested and found
to be true by many women, most especially me.
BMIA:
Ok, Tee. It's time for you to get strapped in to the
Black Men In America.com Hot Seat.
Are you ready? This is where you tell me the first thing that
comes to your mind.
TCM: I'm ready!
Bring it on!
BMIA: Great, let's
get started.
BMIA:
A movie or a
good book?
TCM:
Since I just began a movie project, I'll say a movie. Research is
always good.
BMIA:
Luther or Will
Downing?
TCM:
I'll take Luther - but only the stuff before "Here and Now", the
good 80's stuff.
BMIA: If
you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go
who would you take?
TCM:
I'd go to Jamaica, and I'd take a man who was fun, good looking,
considerate, intelligent, nicely built, SINGLE and offering to pay
for stuff. Wait, let me add that I'd have to be attracted to him.
I know 100 guys who fit that description!
BMIA: If
you could invite one person to dinner (living or dead) who would you
invite and why?
TCM:
I'm currently crushing on an actor named Terrence Howard. I'd
invite him to see if he's as interesting as I think he is. There's
something about his face that leads me to believe he knows something
important that I don't. I'm dying to know what that something is.
BMIA:
Chris Rock or
Bernie Mac?
TCM:
Tough choice but I'll take Chris Rock. He's got the cool, funny
nerd thing going.
BMIA:
A Corvette or
an Escalade?
TCM:
A Corvette. I've seen too many Escalades.
BMIA:
Volunteering
your time or sending a large donation?
TCM:
It depends on the cause. Something with kids, I'll do the time.
Adults can get the dough.
BMIA: Tahira, you
are officially out of the Black Men In
America.com Hot Seat!
TCM: That wasn't too
bad.
BMIA:
Who were some of the people who inspired you?
TCM:
As a young writer, I was inspired by Judy
Blume. When I got to high school, Zora Neale Hurston, Alice Walker,
Maya Angelou and Toni Morrison inspired me to write about Black
women’s issues. Once I got really into my career path of
communications, I was inspired by author J. California Cooper,
hip-hop group OutKast, cartoonist Aaron McGruder and
journalist/activist Tavis Smiley. Professionally, I was influenced
by mentors such as Kato Hammond-editor of Take Me Out to the GoGo,
Thea Mitchem – Director of Urban Programming for Clear Channel
Communications, and Storm the Unpredictable –a hip-hop artist.
BMIA:
What’s the hardest part of being a writer?
TCM:
Nothing is ever hard for me unless I
believe it is hard. I have learned that my life is only what I
believe it to be, so I choose to believe that being a writer is as
easy as taking my next breath.
BMIA:
What’s the easiest part of being a writer?
TCM:
Not having to do what people tell me to
do.
BMIA:
What kind of books do you like to read?
TCM:
I like fiction with lots of humor or
inspirational books and biographies. My next venture is to start
reading mysteries and thrillers.
BMIA:
Who are your favorite authors?
TCM:
J.
California Cooper, Maya Angelou, Eric Jerome Dickey and myself.
BMIA:
You’re also an Entertainment Reporter for DC area magazines and
television, you’ve worked in radio and you’re a freelance writer.
How did you get involved in other media and which job gives you the
most fulfillment?
TCM:
I
went to Morgan State University and got involved with campus radio
and television projects. I left there to go to the Broadcasting
Institute of Maryland, where I could get a more intensive program
for on-air broadcasting. Even though I was trained to be a TV news
reporter, my first job break was “behind the hype” in radio. That
gave me the opportunity to learn about the entertainment business
while putting my writing skills to good use. At the same time, I
was writing for Take Me Out to the GoGo Magazine,
where my editor allowed me to write whatever I wanted. When I got
so much positive feedback on my writing, I knew I eventually wanted
to try writing full-time. I left radio and spent two months
concentrating only on writing God Laughs, Too but I
needed more money and had to go back to work. My next (and very
last) job was doing Public Relations for Jokes On Us Comedy Club and
my bosses allowed me all the time I needed to spend on my writing.
They encouraged me to follow my dream of being an author up until I
left them in 2002. Being an author is definitely the most
fulfilling job because I work for myself and that means the world to
me. Even when I had my own show “Tuff Crowd” on WIAV-TV 58, I felt
stifled because I couldn’t make too many decisions about the set-up.
BMIA:
How did you get involved with Tuff Crowd and Go-Go?
TCM:
I got involved with Take Me Out to
the GoGo Magazine (TMOTTGoGo) through my brother, Rashid,
who did a mini-documentary on go-go music for MTV back in 1998. The
editor of TMOTTGoGo called our house one day and I purposely
answered the phone so I could ask him if I could submit an article.
I’ve been writing for them since then and the magazine is now
distributed in DVD format. Since I have a TV background, they asked
me to host it. Tuff Crowd Conglomerate is the name of my
publishing company. It represents my dream of powerful minds
standing together against all of the junk that the
government/corporate-run media throws at us every day. I plan for it
to be a multi-media company.
BMIA:
How would you describe you seminar “Self Publishing For The Soul?
TCM:
As a self-published author, I have given
and taken advice on what to do in order to be successful. However,
I learned a lot of things on my own that had to do with the personal
side of the business. The “Self-Publishing Seminar for the Soul” is
designed to give authors some insight into how to mentally and
emotionally deal with being a self-published author. I believe it
is just as important as the business and technical side.
BMIA:
Does the business side of being a writer interfere with the creative
side of being a writer? If so, how do you manage this?
TCM:
I used to think it interfered, but I’ve
been reading this great book over and over called “The Game of Life
and How to Play It”. There are many things I can’t handle, so I
give them to God. That used to be such a cliché to me, but I fully
understand it now. It’s only difficult when I think too much about
it. In a conversation recently with Bigg Tigger (BET’s Rap City
host), I told him that I was “trying” to do something. He asked,
“What are you trying for? Just do it.” And he wasn’t selling me
tennis shoes – he inadvertently gave me a life philosophy. That’s
how I manage.
BMIA:
Is writing your fulltime occupation? If not, what do you do to earn
a living?
TCM:
Writing is my full-time gig. In addition
to writing books, I write and design press kits for people and
sometimes do editing work for other authors.
BMIA:
What are the greatest challenge facing black men? Black women?
TCM:
Our greatest challenge is recognizing our
own power – or the power of God within us. Most of us are so
jealous and critical of one another because we are not happy with
ourselves. All over the world, people are eating up this hip-hop
culture and even transforming their bodies to look like us. They
even get butt implants now. In recognizing the power within us, we
wouldn’t allow ourselves to be pimped, unappreciated, degraded or
used by politicians, clergy/religious organizations, or the
corporations that run the entertainment industry. If we all realized
how much power we actually have, many social issues would
automatically be eliminated.
BMIA:
Anything else you'd like to share?
TCM:
There have been real MIRACLES surrounding this project that have
changed my life. I can't wait to share this book and the messages
within it so that more people will find miracles in their lives,
even if they're simply realizing the ones that have been a part of
their lives for quite some time.
Thanks so much for letting me share my work with
Black
Men In America.com.
Realizing miracles, I know this site is one of my most cherished
miracles! You're working wonders for our community and you are
greatly appreciated!