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"25 Things That Really Matter In Life
A Quick and Comprehensive Guide To Making Your Life Better—Today!"
By Gary A. Johnson

The Little Book with a Big Message

Introduction

We live in a very fast-paced society. It seems as if almost everything is designed to happen as quickly as possible. We don’t need cash these days; we just “swipe and go.” We don’t have to stop and pay our toll. We simply flash a card and keep rolling. We have drive-thru windows for doughnuts and coffee. We have a generation of children who put food in the microwave oven, watch it turn, and yell, “hurry!” If you are one of those folks who have to have it “now,” then this book was written for you. 

 

I wrote this book at one of the lowest points in my life. My businesses were heavily in debt and, although I continued to function every day, there were times when I did not feel good about myself. Through it all, I continued to try to affect the lives of others through my training seminars and speeches. I also went out of my way to make sure I was an active dad for my sons.

On a Friday night, in September 2006, I decided to write down the things that really mattered to me. I stopped the list at twenty-five and shelved the project for another year. Putting pen to paper was a measure of accountability. Thirteen months later I was ready to be accountable and make a change in my life. Writing my thoughts on paper was therapeutic and gave me a sense of relief. This process was a “freeing” experience that helped me to feel good again. 

25 Things That Really Matter In Life is a little book with a big message. The techniques and steps that I describe in the following pages are ones that I’ve been using for over thirty years.  If you commit to them, I guarantee you will live a more meaningful and healthier life.

Changing certain aspects of your life is not easy. Looking at your life and the choices you’ve made in an open and honest way can be an emotional and gut-wrenching experience. As you rewind your mental tapes, you are likely to see a pattern of decision-making that is self-defeating or sabotaging. It doesn’t have to be that way.

This is your chance to enhance your quality of life and to feel good about yourself. You can improve your situation today. Don’t blow this opportunity. Victory is near.

When you read the words in this book, know that I am not speaking from an exalted position. This is what I’ve experienced and know to be true. My job is to tell you everything I know to help you make your life successful. Your job is to take what I tell you and develop a flexible and customized plan that will work for you. If you make a commitment to do this, you can live every day as if it’s your last, and enjoy your life. If you want to change your life, change the way you act and the way you think. 

You can control the quality of your life by making 25 Things That Really Matter In Life a part of your daily living. Once you have “mastered” them, I will show you how to start living your best life--today!

Gary A. Johnson 

25 Things That Really Matter in Life: Book Review

By Kam Williams

25 Things That Really Matter in Life is designed to get you started living a better life within the next fifteen minutes... If you want a book to help you begin to change your life right now, then keep reading, because this is the book for you... The techniques and steps that I describe in the following pages are ones I've been using for over thirty years. If you commit to them, I guarantee you will live a more meaningful and healthier life... Let's get started!" - Excerpted from the Introduction (pages 12-16)

Are you stuck in the doldrums? Could you use some help to kick start your life? Then you might want to consider reading this handy little how-to guide by Gary Johnson, publisher of BlackMeninAmerica.com and founder of the consulting firm which bears his name.

Mr. Johnson is also an inspirational speaker whose services are always in demand. And now, with the publication of 25 Things That Really Matter in Life, you can be motivated by the man without having to attend one of his lectures or workshops.

The book is designed to take less than an hour to read, while promising the potential to transform you instantly. The words contained on the pages are mostly meaningful meditations on what the author has found to be most important to him, as opposed to advice dictating specific behavior to improve your plight.

Still, Gary makes a convincing case that his 3-step path probably works, for he acknowledges having himself gone through tough times marked by debt, depression and withdrawal. When he was bottoming out, he made a list of the things that mattered most to him, a therapeutic process which helped him get his priorities in order while simultaneously freeing him to feel good again.

He realized that foremost among what he values are Faith, Family, Love, Children and Health, and he explains succinctly why each entry deserves to be a priority. After he expounds on all 25 of his personal areas of concern, the focus shifts to Step 2. Here, the text changes into a workbook, allotting space for you the reader to delineate 25 things you most want to achieve in life.

This, in turn, enables you to embark ultimately on Step 3, namely, mastery of your own life. A timely tome for anyone seriously seeking to take the steps to shed self-destructive habits and dysfunctional influences in order to become "the best possible you."

To purchase a copy of the book, call: 1-877-792-7262.

Or visit: http://courtlandpress.com/Buy_The_Book.html

25 Things That Really Matter in Life:  A Comprehensive Guide to Making Your Life Better
by Gary A. Johnson

Courtland Press
Paperback
76 pages
ISBN:
0979111307

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Testimonials

Here's what people are saying about "25 Things..."

"Gary Johnson has taken his personal pain and turned it into the power to share home truths.  His list of the things we need for a fulfilling and successful life will be confirmation for some, a reminder for others, and a much-needed wake-up call for still another group of readers.  This is a great gift for people at life’s crossroads, and for those looking for a tool to guide them through self-exploration."

Dr. Julianne Malveaux
President, Bennett College for Women
Economist, Author & Commentator


"Gary Johnson has written a book that will encourage you, inspire you and empower you for greater personal and professional success!  It will help you do more, be more and achieve more! Read it and then re-read it!  You will be glad you did!"

Willie Jolley
Best Selling Author of "It Only Takes A Minute To Change Your Life" and "A Setback Is A Setup For A Comeback"


 

"Finally a person who has a plan for success that is accessible, tested and proven. Gary's words implore you to make moves toward success and he gives you the clear tools to be a winner. Plus it is never ever a bad thing to learn about success from someone who is actually successful. Bravo Gary for sharing your knowledge with the rest of us!"

 

LaDawn Black, relationship expert, radio personality and the author of Stripped Bare


 

“Johnson packs a powerful punch with this practical guide designed to quick-start your journey to a more meaningful and healthier life in just three steps. From faith, family, and love to wealth building, giving, and more, the book encourages readers to make these twenty-five key aspects a priority in everyday life, providing valuable tips and worksheets along the way. Ultimately, you’ll learn how to map out what is most important to you, what you really want to do before you die, and apply what you’ve learned to live the best life possible."

Tammy Richards-LeSure
Richards Public Relations


"A great read for anyone contemplating the things that really matter in life.  Lean, mean, and full of wisdom."

 Jonathan Luckett, nationally acclaimed author of "The Mating Game," "The Forever Game," "Dissolve," and "
Jasminium"


"Gary Johnson is a raconteur and his stories invoke transformation in people’s lives in different ways.  For me, Johnson’s writings facilitate an experience; prompting authentic notions, leading to awareness, new perspectives and at times momentous breakthroughs. Revitalizing, inspiring and provocative…”25 Things That Really Matter In Life,” is a must read."

EGAS

 

"Gary:

I meant to tell you how much your book blessed my life.  Have already recommended that my friends get a copy.  In fact, I plan to order a bunch to hand out at our church's Seasoned Luncheon."

P. Miller - Washington, DC

"I'm going to purchase 10 books to give to friends, but I'll love receiving an autographed copy from you!"

R. G.  - Eldridge, IA

"Gary, your book stays on my nightstand.  You were right, I see something different in me every time I read it."

T. Jones, Temple Hills, MD

"What I especially like about it is that it gives the reader just enough, is not overwhelming.  The Appendix, which I termed the “Workbook Section” is excellent, and can be used as a journal or treasure map for those serious about applying the principles outlined in the book.  It is also a winner because all 25 topics are relevant to the lives of almost all people, and that makes it universal."

Shirley Hardiman, Chicago, IL

 

L to R:  Ricky Ford, Gary Johnson & Edward E. Smith
 

       

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Gary promoting his book on the Maggie Linton Show on Sirius/XM Radio.

The 10 Best Black Books of 2008 (Non-Fiction) 

By Kam Williams

1. Hope on a Tightrope: Words & Wisdom

by Cornel West

Hope on a Tightrope earns the #1 spot at the dawn of the new political era of Barack Obama. Why? Because in spite of the uncritical euphoria surrounding Obama's historic accomplishment, Dr. West has the guts to call attention to the pressing plight of the least of his brethren even before the President-elect has had a chance to take office.

Plus, the iconoclastic author, in urging the incoming administration to address the concerns of the poor and underprivileged, cleverly invokes "the fierce urgency of now," the same phrase coined by Dr. Martin Luther King and appropriated by Obama as his campaign theme. Props to Professor West for such a passionate reminder that the struggle for equality couldn't possibly end automatically upon with the ascension of a black man to the nation's highest office.

2. Faith under Fire: A Memoir

by LaJoyce Brookshire

Everybody is aware of the devastating toll the escalating AIDS rate has been taking on the black community. For this reason, inner city schools all over the country ought to consider adding this memoir to their curriculum as a precautionary measure. The book revolves around author LaJoyce Brookshire's relationship with a duplicitous brother on the down low who callously put his monogamous wife's life at risk.

Only well into their marriage did a bell go off in her head, but by then he already had full-blown AIDS, and she was left in shock by the carousing, carelessness and sexual preferences by a partner she had incorrectly assumed to be a straight, faithful spouse. Not exactly anybody's idea of a fairy tale romance, but a wake-up call ice to sisters who can't be too careful, given the rampant spread of AIDS by convicts, intravenous drug users and brothers simply too afraid to admit they're gay or bisexual due to the intolerant nature of a macho, inner-city culture marked by an intolerance of homosexuality.

3. Standing Tall: A Memoir of Tragedy and Triumph

by C. Vivian Stringer

When Don Imus referred to the young women on the Rutgers University Basketball Team as "nappy headed-hos" a year ago, it deeply affected their Coach, Vivian Stringer who "couldn't shake the feeling that I had fallen down in my responsibility to protect these girls." What almost nobody knew is that Vivian was recovering from breast cancer at the time Imus' indefensible remarks thrust her into the national limelight, and that her mother suffered a stroke right in the middle of the controversy.

So, Stringer never let on that she was going through chemo and caring for her seriously-ill mom while handling the crisis with the utmost poise and dignity. Poignantly written without a whit of bitterness, Standing Tall is as moving a memoir as I ever remember reading. The tears started flowing from the first page and didn't stop till I finished the book.

4. Black Pain: It Just Looks Like We're Not Hurting

by Terrie M. Williams

Social Worker Terrie Williams is most persuasive, here, making the argument that life is hard in the 'hood, that people are suffering from depression as a consequence, and that the time has arrived to remove the stigma in the community still attached to seeking out psychological help. A convincing call for African-Americans to trade in their self-defeating stoicism for some long-overdue mental health treatment.

5. Don't Blame It on Rio

by Jewel Woods and Karen Hunter

Did you know that Brazil has become the favorite vacation destination of a rapidly-increasing number of professional African-American males? Are black women even necessary any longer? Perhaps not, according to Jewel Woods and Pulitzer Prize-winner Karen Hunter, co-authors of this eye-opening expose' which blows the cover off the clandestine sex trade currently flourishing in Rio.

The city is apparently a popular port of call with bourgie brothers from the U.S. due to the easy availability of local women who don't have the attitude or emotional baggage they generally find attached to sisters back home. A rather revealing look at a disturbing cultural trend.

6. Be a Father to Your Child:

by April R. Silver

How do African-American males feel about fatherhood nowadays? Here's a hint: Between 70 and 85% of black kids are now being raised by single-moms. The popular notion is that misogynistic gangsta rap might have formed men generally unwilling to shoulder their fair share of the burden when it comes to parenting.

But before you jump to conclusions, you might want to read this collection of empowering essays by black men of the Hip-Hop Generation who have not abandoned their children. For this uplifting tome, which includes contributions by rapper Talib Kweli, writer Bakari Kitwana and filmmaker Byron Hunt, offers a heartening mix of poetry, prose and pictures designed to reassure skeptics about the prospects of the black family.

7. The Naked Truth: Young Beautiful and (HIV) Positive

by Marvelyn Brown

This bittersweet biography chronicles the author's evolution from being diagnosed HIV+ to feeling desperate, frightened and abandoned to blossoming into a fearless AIDS activist. Now 24, this brave young lady deserves considerable credit for going public and thus putting a face on a still generally hidden and denied disease at a time when African-Americans account for the majority of new infections in the United States.

8. The Race Card: How Bluffing About Bias Makes Race Relations Worse

by Richard Thompson Ford

Was it fair for Michael Jackson to turn himself white only to reclaim his blackness when he wanted to sue his record company? According to Richard Thompson Ford, many well-off African-Americans are more than willing to make inappropriate accusations of prejudice for purely selfish reasons.

The author concludes that such opportunists who resort to the tactic of playing the race card "are the enemies of truth, social harmony, and social justice." His solution? "For all decent and honest people" to join in condemning any such perpetrators. Certainly, food for thought in what has recently been dubbed "post-racial" America.

9. Letters to a Young Sister: Define Your Destiny

by Hill Harper

Actor Hill Harper received nothing but positive feedback a couple of years ago upon the release of Letters to a Young Brother, his inspirational how-to book for African-American males. Its uplifting message emphasized the value of a good education over the accumulation of material possessions while also stressing the importance of being the architect of your own life.

So, it is only fitting that he would choose to write a companion text for black females with the help such luminaries as Michelle Obama, Angela Bassett, Ruby Dee, Nikki Giovanni and Sanaa Lathan. This invaluable tome addresses a litany of concerns occupying the inquiring minds of impressionable girls still in their formative years. Overall, an uplifting collection of sage insights aimed at instilling self-confidence, self-respect and self-reliance.


10. Sweet Release: The Last Step to Black Freedom

by Dr. James Davison, Jr.

Is it detrimental for African-Americans to continue to think of their struggle for advancement as a collective as opposed to a solitary enterprise? This is the controversial contention put forward by Dr. Davison, a psychologist in private practice in California. He believes that those black folks still viewing reality through a pre-Civil Rights Era prism are only standing in the way of their own freedom.

According to the author, the key rests in African-Americans breaking the psychological bonds to their racial past by asserting their individuality, a step which he claims "has little to do with racism, prejudice, or discrimination." A bitter pill to swallow, but so shockingly confrontational that its prescription for black sanity is a must read, despite the doctor's apparent right-wing political allegiances.

Honorable Mention

All about the Beat: Why Hip-Hop Can't Save Black America
by John McWhorter

Barack Obama: Making History
Edited by Tanya Ishikawa

The Chronicles of a Gentleman (The Untold Truth)
by Leroy Sanders

Company I 366th Infantry
by Harold E. Russell, Jr.

How to Build a Million Dollar Business
by Richelle Shaw

Life as a Single Mom
by Stephanie M. Clark

Life Is a Game
by Jim Copeland

My True Soul: Exploited, Apprehended & Broken Within
by Shawna M. Harrison

Why Black People Can't Lose Weight
by Makeisha Lee

Why African-Americans Can't Get Ahead
by Gwen Richardson

25 Things That Really Matter in Life:
A Comprehensive Guide to Making Your Life Better
by Gary A. Johnson

Worst Black Book of 2008

A Bound Man: Why We Are Excited about Obama and Why He Can't Win
by Shelby Steele

The title says it all. Black conservative Shelby Steele took a calculated risk in publishing a book predicting Obama wouldn't win. Oops. A bigger blunder than the Chicago Tribune's "Dewey Elected' headline prematurely announcing the demise of Harry Truman in 1948. Probably already out-of-print.

More About Kam Williams

Kam Williams is a syndicated film and book critic who writes for 100+ publications around the U.S. and Canada. He is a member of the New York Film Critics Online, the African-American Film Critics Association, the NAACP Image Awards Nominating Committee and Rotten Tomatoes.

In 2006, he was voted Best Male Entertainment Journalist of the Decade by the Disilgold Soul Literary Review.

Williams holds a BA in Black Studies from Cornell University, an MA in English from Brown University, an MBA from The Wharton School, and a JD from Boston University.

An encyclopedia collection of Williams’ content can be found at The Sly Fox Film Reviews at www.kamwilliams.com.

 


 

 

 

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